what should i go as to a 90's party?
>>16613156
vanilla ice
Kurt Cobain with half a head.
(I'm a huge nirvana fan)
Sanic
I have dark circles almost identical to this guy's except mine are more red/purple.
How the fuck do I get rid of them? Is it just my deep set bone structure?
bump. would also like to know this
Two bags of green tea. Add them in hot water for a bit, then place them under your eyes for an hour.
Also get enough sleep, drink enough water and make sure your iron levels are ok.
>>16613152
i dont understand why do you even want to get rid of them? they give you a aura of mystery/darkness making you basically a almost supernatural figure and that to some women is attractive as what women doesnt like mystery? as long as you have a attractive face of course then it can work in your favor.
If you are adamant about removing them then try drinking only water and lots of it also slice up a potato, you only need two slices enough to fit over each eye then leave them on your eyes for around 5 minutes,...
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How to deal with having no friends you regularly do things with/enjoy having around
Videogames
>>16613093
Find other friends.
>>16613093
I don't. I'm going insane, but I don't feel anxious.
Help me figure out how difficult this is going to be.
If you were looking for a roommate, and found someone who had a bunch of reptiles, would you still go for it?
If they didn't stink and I didn't think they were creepy, yes.
How many is "a bunch"
Depends. If they take good care of them, sure!
>gf is 20, i'm 24
>met her when she was [spoiler]15[/spoiler] online, waited until she was 18 to meet her
>met her when she turned 18, we hit it off immediately
>we fly to each other quite a bit, we're not actually that far
>will be meeting her parents next week when i visit her
>"so how did you meet her anon?"
How the fuck do I answer this question without...
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>>16613068
Isn't that up to her to explain? Surely they've asked her where she met you and she's answered?
>>16613074
Probably, I don't think she's bought it up to them yet though. Either way I'd like to know for future reference when other people ask.
As a french guy, what are some easy-to-find summer jobs in England to help me practise my english and gain money for travelling the next year ?
>>16613023
Depends whereabouts in england you'll be going. Do you know yet?
>>16613678
I was thinking about London, I don't know England that much desu. Maybe you can recommend me a better place not so far from the southern coast ?
>>16614050
Cost of living is high and decent cheap accommodation in London is hard to find, wouldn't recommend working a low paid job there unless you're just hosteling around. If you're traveling in the summer I would recommend Bournemouth/Poole, or going further along the coast to Brighton. Lots of work comes up in the summer because there's more call for stuff like life guarding, beach cleaning, cafe/bar staff. Bar work or waiting tables is a particularly good shot if you want to practice speaking english. If you're clear to work legally then any employment agency will find you a job in less than a week if you're up for it. In my experience Bournemouth isn't a terribly interesting place but the beaches are great on a good day, and you're less likely to get mugged than you are in London.
Please help me. Yesterday I finally officially broke up with my ex who was also my best friend after a very horrible final months and I have been crying basically nonstop since.
I spent hours trying to read things that rationalize why ending it was the best thing I could do for both of us, especially myself.
I still can't shake how much I miss him, how scared I am to be completely alone in this merciless world. It feels so unfair. We both loved each other a great deal and neither of us wanted it to end but it just became so horribly toxic.
It doesn't really...
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In retrospect there's probably nothing someone here could tell me that would help I am just thrashing around desperately at this point it just hurts so much and my life and I am a fucking mess
Making friends after college?
Hey all, I graduated pretty recently and I've been worried about my friends. I'm gonna be moving away soon for a job and my girlfriend (same city), and I'm worried I won't be able to make friends. What're the easiest ways to make friends in your early 20s?
>>16612985
What's up with that picture my dude?
>>16612985
Common interests. I met 2 of my best friends at open mics because we love music. Met my other friends in a creative writing class because we both love writing. In general though, I have no idea. Those relationships don't matter much in my opinion.
A guy from my girlfriend's work has been subtly trying to ask her out. The first time was a few months ago and he asked her if she wanted to grab coffee after work, she said she was busy and declined and left it at that without saying she had a boyfriend. When I asked why she didn't tell him that she did, she said she just didn't want to assume that he meant a date and didn't want to embarrass herself (though, in my eyes it clearly was). I said it was fine and I understood.
The second time was last night, though this time he was a bit more direct and asked when she was free and if she wanted to hang out. Again, my girlfriend made up a fake excuse and said no without telling him she had a boyfriend. This concerned and upset me now, because not only is it crystal clear that he's going for her romantically this time, but she dodged telling him twice about her relationship. When I said I was upset, she said she just acted on impulse and just wanted to say no and not explain any further. I said it felt insulting to me that she wouldn't just tell him and be done with it, and that she doesn't seem to mind that she's being hit on by another man.
After talking, she found a subtle way to tell him that she's in a relationship. Though, I still feel uncomfortable. My girlfriend is very shy and likes to avoid confrontation, and is also very naive (everyone knew I liked her before we dated before she did). She also said she only acted on impulse, and was genuinely sorry when I told her how it ticked me off, and asked how she would feel if I did the same to another woman.
Am I overreacting here? She's apologised now and the dude knows she's taken, but I still feel humiliated that she didn't in the first place. Talk some sense into me, /adv/.
>>16612979
>She's apologised now and the dude knows she's taken, but I still feel humiliated that she didn't in the first place
Yes, you are overreacting. You said yourself it's in her personality to be oblivious and to not like confrontation, if you can't accept it in light of this, then you're a lost cause.
>>16612979
Ya it is kinda weird, man.
And you also have to wonder why he's asked your gf out twice. Is she sending him signals that are making him want to ask or is he just a rapey fucker?
It depends on what kind of a person she is. If she's awkward and non-confrontational then it's not that weird that she acted like this. Girls and guys are different.
Also, I guess girls often don't want to jump to conclusions when guys ask them to do something. While it might be obvious to guys the dude was interested, it's not obvious for many girls.
I'm young. 19, I work full time, around 50 hours a week. I make good money, I have found a career. My problem though, is that all throughout high school I was in a relationship, I was with her four years, it ended not too long ago. Around 6 months ago, but we'd been off an on for a large majority of that time. I'm fairly certain it's actually over for good now, but now I feel as if I meet no girls. I seem to do nothing except work. I have money, but all of my friends either are at college, or are working shit fast food jobs, who only ever get drunk for fun....
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What's you job? Just curious.
>>16612977
Car sales.
Bump.
Pls give advice Anyone who's experienced this
So I live with a divorcing couple.
The man is petty, jealous, and has anger issues.
What do I do if he accuses me of something during the divorce proceedings as a custody ploy?
What are my rights? Will I be raided? Will it go on my record?
> being married
> having a roommate too
wut
>>16612927
Raided? What do you think he's going to accuse you of? Most men, even the real pieces of shit, wouldn't falsely accuse a man of harming a child so I wouldn't worry too much.
It's just so much I wouldn't ever be able to finish. I've so many "reasons" to do this. But if I were to write them I would just bore the hell out of you.
Now, the point: I want to kill myself.
I don't want to live anymore. I can't be alive. I just can't handle the fact that my family will be absolutely devastated if I do it.
My mental state is getting worse, and I feel like I'm becoming more of a drag each passing day.
I just started college, and so far I'm good, but life itself has been absolutely debilitating...
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>>16612910
what are the problems in your life?
Make a life for yourself that you can handle. Some people can take on college and everything and make it. For some people, that's too much. For you, it's too much. Make a life that you can handle. Can you get a job? A simple job? Caregiving? Computer work? I don't know how third world you are. Volunteer somewhere that pays expenses? Join a convent or conservation group or something?
>>16612910 (OP)
>BIog posting when you couId be Iooking these subjects up on your own
No point in posting here.
Ok guys, i hope someone could help me. First of all im not a kiddo who wants to play the hacker, but im a guy who just want to learn something new, beacuse i always love this field. That said, someone could help me to find a site, a community, or everything that can allow me to learn the road to start hacking? I know that Python is used a lot, so i want to learn that language too, but i don't really know where to start. I saw a lot of sites about this, but im sure here i will get a more complete answer, i have a lot of trust in you guys.
If by hacking you mean obtaining access to computers remotely, all that is more or less done through psyops these days. There are very very few exploits you can use to gain direct access without input on the part of the user.
By psyops I mean convincing people to install a rootkit, keylogger or any other type of malware which allows you to spy on them. So my advice to you is, learn whatever programming language you need to learn, develop malware and bundle it with otherwise useful software and get people to install and use it. Once they do, you have access to everything...
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlezBUdD53w
>>16612945
>learn whatever programming language you need to learn
This. You can "learn to be a hacker" by following some step-by-step methodology and having a rudimentary understanding. You'd get that from some random hacker forum. But that's like doing a paint-by-numbers painting. Ya gotta understand programming language and computer hardware/software and the base that hacking is built upon. Hacking is several layers deep. Making sure you have a solid introduction so you...
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I cheated on and broke up with my girlfriend of three years a few weeks ago. I'd been with her since high school. She broke up with me about three months ago for a week, partly because she was "busy" and I was "clingy." Those are issues everyone has, though, and they're trivial; I just wanted to hang out more than she did. The main reason she broke up with me was because she couldn't trust me. So I ended things with her. Now I have no fucking clue what to do. Story time.
You see, back when we were still in highschool, her parents told her...
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>>16612899
Shit, sorry for the wall of text.
So she didn't trust me because I "cheated" on her. So after a year of me being exactly what she wanted, she broke up with me. This was a few months ago. I guess she never really forgave me? I don't know. We still ended up hanging out and having sex just as much as we always had, but after a week I was almost getting over things. But she says "Nothing's changed. Let's just stay together." So we do. During the next two months, things are mostly fine, but she cancels plans with me. She has no problems canceling plans with me to hang out with some classmates, but when I wanted her to go to a work party with me that I had discussed with her a month prior, she said she had made plans to hang out with one of her friends. I wasn't happy. That wasn't the first time that had happened, and I knew it wouldn't be the last.
Of course, I'm fine with her cancelling plans with me occasionally, and I want her to hang out with her friends, but I felt like I wasn't getting any special treatment, despite me being her SO for years. She called me a bitch jokingly a lot. I'd call her a faggot and tell her to get on her knees and beg for my forgiveness, and we'd have a laugh about it. But it bothered me that she was comfortable calling me that as often as she did.
At the party, this gorgeous girl sits next to me for a good part of the night. I think "Wow, it feels great having someone act interested in me." Then it hit me: the girlfriend didn't give a shit. So I start hanging out with the gorgeous girl over the next few days, I cheat on my girlfriend, then I break up with her. Shitstorm ensues etc. It's all passed now.
I miss my ex. The gorgeous girl has a boyfriend. The fuck do I do? (cont again)
>>16612903
(cont) Trying to get back with the ex sounds like a horrible idea, as I'm sure you agree. I could definitely continue seeing the gorgeous girl, but I feel really bad for her boyfriend. I could get her to leave him (it's long distance; the only reason she's with him is because she doesn't like letting go of people), but I'd have to commit to a relationship with her. Am I really cut out for that? I still miss my ex.
I don't know what to do. I just know that I'm really sad right...
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Stay alone for a while.
Work on yourself and get completely out of this relationship: it was pretty unhealthy and you need to understand what was wrong with it (cheating, lies, manipulation, changing yourself to fit her standards) before getting in a new one. Figure out what you want in a relationship, what was missing with your ex, and try to focus on that when you get back to dating.
It is not going to be easy, because everyone loves to be loved and being single sucks. But if you don't use this chance to grow up you will lose every other girl you fall for.
Good luck.
>tfw no bf
I'm sociable, I have hobbies, I have a job, I have my own place...
How do I find a bf that isn't some desperate 90 year old mexican looking for a green card? Everyone I ever meet just schmoozing around at work or bars or w/e is straight. What gives?
Are you a girl or a fag?
>>16612885
>Are you a girl or a fag?
hmmmm
>Everyone I ever meet ... is straight. What gives?
Shit man, I dunno.
>>16612943
Shit personality confirmed