Hey /adv/.
I masturbate on the upwards of 6 times a day.
I am a single-by-choice, young, heterosexual male with quick access to masturbatory aid (I.E porn sites, porn mags) and a high sex drive.
I sometimes feel like I masturbate simply because I am bored and find myself with nothing to do, and am rarely in a situation that disallows the action.
I'd be hard-pressed to believe that my fapping isn't unhealthy, but what exactly are the negative effects caused by my sexual habits? Are there any benefits to masturbating frequently, even as frequently as I do?...
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Start lifting. Get some friends
>>16637586
>single-by-choice
Sure you are buddy.
That's pretty normal and to be honest there is nothing wrong with that.
Do some push-ups instead every other time you feel like fapping. Something like that, actually do something productive in that time.
I am 18, senior year in high school, and have pretty much decided to join the US military. I want to join in order to have a 'realer' life experience, and to actually do something. I want an experience that isn't simply more academics. I also feel like I could do some good in the military, now that transgender individuals will be permitted to join, I could be the first generation of openly transgender military women, I feel like this would be a positive change.
My skills are as follows
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>>16637393
Mechanic in any branch sounds like what you want
Try to kill the ASVAB and take what you get
>>16637403
Sorry, forgot to add
Talk to a recruiter from each service.
AF crew chief can be an awesome job if you are cut out for it
>>16637403
I took the practice ASVAB, but I really hard a hard time finding reference for what a good score is
I'm an American living in Japan and I think I might maybe possibly have a shot with a girl here.
But Japanese as a language is very indirect, and I'm worried that if I am too direct it might scare her or give a bad feeling, maybe?
Anybody have any experience with cross culture relationships?
Note: her English is great. My Japanese is garbage but she appears to be interested in teaching me.
>>16637377
Why not just talk in English then?
She is talking to you for no apparent reason.
This means she wants you, ya dummy.
>>16637380
That doesn't actually change the nature of how communication works with Japanese people, in my limited experience.
That said, we do mostly speak in English but I'm trying to up my Japanese too.
So /adv/ I've been in a relationship for the past 3 years. It was rocky for the first bit but passionate and we both desired each other. Now I feel like the desire or passion is gone and were running out of thing to talk about and it's just not as exciting as it used to be (but I still really care for him)
Any suggestions on how to get the passion or desire back? I know this happens in every relationship and I don't want to leave him, I just want to make some tweaks that can make things more exciting for the both of us.
I don't think being exciting us a requirement. Hell, it isn't sustainable.
I feel the same way about my chronically lazy and over masturbating boyfriend. I care about him but I don't want to be stuck with him in this state in the future.
Take 70-100 MG of MDMA, it saved my relationship.
If you can't get MDMA, just have a night where you hang out, drink red wine, eat pizza, and cuddle. this is like relationship therapy. Enjoy each others company and have a heart to heart about your relationship under the good conditions of alcohol and delicious pizza
How does one go about not masturbating?
I've started on the the day gay marriage was legalized and I've fapped 172 times altogether. Wat do.
I just now masturbated, and violated my unspoken New Year's resolution, just so you know. I would say that I felt bad about it, but I really didn't, at least not now, but I did several minutes ago.
Pic unrelated.
May I ask what your motivation is?
Masturbation is healthy. Do it, don't eschew it.
>>16637223
For the masturbation or currently failing effort against it?
Are there any good ways to speed up getting over a girl? I'm doing pretty good but I just found out my ex already has a new boyfriend who's a skinny little fag boy and it hurts to know he'll probably be the one to take her virginity instead of me, and just hurts to think about them being intimate in general
What makes you think you have any entitlement to her virginity? What's so special about her virginity anyway?
Get a new girlfriend.
>It's the only way.
>>16637162
A guy goes to his doctor.
"Doctor!" He says. "It hurts when I do this. "
You know what the doctor says?
"Don't do that."
My gf got a tattoo on the ribs, and she will only show it to me in person. I find that kind of tattoos way to sexy.
We've never had sex or anything past kissing. And to be honest I want to avoid a freaking boner when I see her tattoo, because she will probably be in her bra or something, and it would be too weird.
Any advice?
>>16637137
wait. what?
if you don't want to get an erection in front of your GF, who do you want to get an erection in front of?
Have sex now, you stupid cow.
>>16637137
That's fucking natural.
And girls with tattoos on their ribs are usually trashy anyways, why not try banging her?
Hey /adv/ I will be losing my viriginity tomorrow, but I don't know if I should do it. This chick has slept with other guys and I don't want any diseases. Do I still go for it? I'm 18 male by the way.
>>16637115
I did something like that. Didn't really care then, dont care now
>what are condoms?
>inb4 I don't want to use condoms on my first time
>>16637115
If you're looking for a virgin girl who isn't ugly/fat you're about 5 years too late. Go for it.
I don't usually come on here, but I'm desperate. I need a Lawfag to help me with a predicament. I recently met a 16 year old girl online (age of consent in my state is 16). She was at a cheap diner in a shitty city on the outskirts of Detroit when I met her. She wanted to talk, so I decided I'd bite and talk to her. I had no intentions of sex, I have a gf, but she shared interests with me and I was bored so I said fuck it, free dinner and someone to talk to.
She ends up making me feel bad for her because she says her boyfriend ditched her, she's locked...
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Get a lawyer.
And next time ask for a lawyer as soon as you are arrested, fool.
They can't convict you unless you actually did something and they can prove it. You should be fine unless they convince her to say you did something. That said, you should go and see an actual lawyer, I'm just working with general legal principles I know because I know nothing about where you live
>>16637144
Wasn't arrested, they sent me a letter in the mail saying I had to go to the court house to pay a fine and have a misdemeanor put on my record.
So I've come across a dilemma:
Girls are attracted to me.
However, I don't find them attractive at all.
This has happened for years whether I've noticed it or not and at this point I've come to realize that this means that I'm not-so-attractive. It's not a confidence issue; I can love myself to near-narcissism and girls who are above my level will still not give me a chance. I see ugly guys believing themselves to be supermodels getting rejected by them.
Henceforth, I am left with three options:
1.)Gain power, money, status, and...
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wat.
Go out with the girls that are attracted to you, date them, fuck them, learn the world of women. Then dump them for another that you like slightly more, repeat, and climb the ladder.
>>16637125
It's my dream to lose my virginity to an attractive lady, so that doesn't work.
There's this girl I know who I know for a fact is interested in me. I've known this for about 4 months now and it's common knowledge among mutual friends. She's really pretty and genuinely really nice, but I haven't asked her out or talked to her about it. The reason for this is that so far, she has not made single effort to gain my attention other than tell friends that she's interested in me, who then tell me about it.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but when someone is interested in you romantically, they should do something about it and...
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There could be many reasons why she hasn't said anything. Do you two talk often?
That's women for you. But at least she is telling other's about her liking you. It's a woman's dream for the man to make the first move and take her on a nice date. You can either make her fantasy come true or you can put on a fedora and post on /adv/ and /r9k/ about how dumb women are. It's not going to change.
>>16637168
This
I need some advice, anons. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with the most amazing girl I have ever met. Even before we were dating, I would think about her all the time and just get happier, because I knew she was there to talk to. After a good four months of just compliments, flirting, and getting to know each other, I made it official with her on Christmas day.
Flash Forward to the next night and we're Skype calling as usual, and all of a sudden she just hangs up. I have no idea what happened but it's been a good week, with absolutely no word...
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>>16637022
Maybe she got cold feet? Pretty lame of her to just up and leave.
But maybe something's going on, either technical or in her life.
Do you know any of her friends? Does she have a Facebook or blog or instagram or social media or steam or anything where you can see if she's alive?
>>16637036
She has an Instagram, but she hasn't uploaded anything since that night. I haven't really tried to talk to her friends yet because I don't know them and most of their accounts are set to private anyways.
>>16637022
I'd just send her a message saying that you hope she's okay and that everything is alrgiht, that you miss her and that you'd like her to get in contact with you as soon as she can. Your choice to put an I love you at the end or not
If she replies, get whatever bullshit explanation she has and take it from there. If not, well fuck her she is a bitch
But it doesn't bode well man. One week has to be like a serious medical emergency or she's just being an enormous cunt
Not for family, not from lust for other girls, but to kill feelings of caring and falling in love?
I'm in love with my best friend. I know I'm attractive and she finds me attractive but I know for a fact she won't accept me because I have the most shitty luck
I don't want to get hurt.
Just go out and meet someone else. That's how it always works.
I have feels for a female friend of mine. I told her how I felt and she said that isn't looking for anything. We do both care about each other a lot. So I can't break contact. It just hurts.. :(
>>16636994
I had a crush on my best friend and never did anything about it until she asked me out, which was completely unexpected to me at the time.
Of course, she also broke up with me after about a month because of reasons that I couldn't understand when it happened. I was an asshole who didn't understand anything about flirting and had no idea how to handle girls. I was too careful.
I'm sorry, rambling. The point is, go for her dude.
Let me start off by saying I know most people hate guys like me. Listen if I could get rid of my urges I would in a heartbeat . I accidentally posted a pic to /b/ that I didn't mean to at all. People said they were gonna report me. I'm scared, I really don't want to get in trouble. I'm young , I swear I will change and become better.
You sound lost. Go for a walk and appreciate life.
>>16636980
That isn't gonna solve anything
>>16636986
Neither is posting vague hints at what you're doing and expecting a helpful answer.
when I go on serious fapping binges and fap like 3 times a day for a month I feel as though my hair thins. Im already going bald and have to get a low hair cut but soon the thin spots are going to become bald. Am I imagining the correlation between fapping and balding. Ive been planning on what to do when its time to go completely bald and have slowly come to terms with it. Im only 23 right now. Probably wont have hair when Im 25.
>>16636879
Fapping doesn't make you bald.
>>16636918
Ive seen arguments of both. But I havent found an actual scientific argument for either side is the thing. Just broscience.
>>16636944
If you haven't found a scientific argument for something that sounds like nonsense, then you can safely assume that it is, in fact, nonsense.