Is it safe for a black person to move into suburban Minnesota?
>>16654651
Of course.
>>16654654
I keep hearing that people would try to murder me if I was anywhere outside the twin cities.
Minnesota is liberal central, practically the most ethnically friendly state in the Midwest. Big immigrant population, the Twin Cities are a huge metro area altogether. Whereabouts are you going?
Jehovah's Witnesses practice shunning (which at this point in time I believe is a known form of psychological torture.)
A person I know and love is going to be disfellowshipped and consequently shunned. Resulting in losing their family, friends, and livelihood. All for loving me (an "otherwordly person" a.k.a non-believer)
This person is being blackmailed and given an ultimatum that if they don't cease contact with me they will be shunned/exiled from everything, and everyone
How can I fight this?
If at all? Can I take this to court?...
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Of course it's not illegal. Just help the person with a place to stay, shoulder to cry on, etc.
>>16654636
Unless your a confessed satanist or athiest or whatever, her parents are doing all this because they don't want her to date you/they don't like you.
My wife is/was (once you're baptized J-Ho, you're never really out) and her parents chose to stand by and support her while we dated. Sure, some in the church chose to "shun", but those were really just the assholes anyway.
Just like when a cop gives you speeding ticket for going 7mph over. He probably could have given...
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>>16654636
the Jehovah's witnesses have been practicing exploitative persecutor and isolating strategies for decades
it's not illegal, and the government won't act
you have to leave the Jehovah witnesses, it's hard but after you leave everything gets easier and you can take a normal life back
that's how it ends, everyone leaves one by one, and the more people leave the easier it gets
you learn that the org isn't the same as your faith, your family and your community,...
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Is female orgasm a myth? Male orgasm has a purpose - to make it extremely hard for the male to pull out, and to ensure that he inseminates the female.
But what's the purpose of a female orgasm? Does it have its own function, such as easing the sperm in? No. In reality the vaginal canal is acidic and kills sperm..
Scientific findings tell us that there is no such thing as a "vaginal orgasm" or a "clitoral orgasm" or even a G-spout, but that the female can achieve orgasm via stimulation of the clitoris..
So what's the purpose...
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>>16654587
I'm a female and I've orgasmed before
So, no. It's not a myth
It functions to keep the females from growing bored with men and their stupid antics.
>>16654587
>G-spout
kek
yeah they orgasm and some even squirt and no its not piss
however its much more unlikely for a girl to orgasm than a guy and about 2/3 of womyn have problems orgasming with their partner but thats because 2/3rds arent hot enough to get chad and/or are just gold / status-diggers who settle for unsexy men
but it is true that the female reproductive system is constructed in a way to genocide as many sperm as possible so only the healthiest one can make the baby
I'm going crazy over my recent breakup, /adv/.
I've been having nightmares reliving the breakup every night for two weeks now (two weeks since it happened). I can't sleep, I can't concentrate, I'm overeating to a horrid extent. I've spent every day crying at least 3 or 4 times, sometimes many more.
I love that man with my whole heart and soul. he broke up with me over something really small, he found a (admittedly, flirty) text I'd sent to an old friend and thought I was cheating on him. I haven't even seen that friend since...
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>>16654553
No sympathy kekekekek
You're having nightmares because you did a shitty thing and you have to live with the consequences.
>>16654563
you fuck right off
it was shitty but it wasn't unforgivably shitty.
I want advice, not jeering remarks. go back to /r9k/ you foul beast.
Usually pot before bed helps stop the dreams
What is your job like? Am thinking about this career.
(Pic unrelated)
Its great, just dont get caught fucking any of the elementary school students.
>>16654657
How is this bait? I'm not asking a ridiculous question.
You are the one shitting up other people's threads.
Soon to be hs teacher from germany here. In germany we dont exactly have hss, but the age should be the same at the edicational stage that I am in.
Its a grwat job. If you have a certain amount of self esteem and know how to present yourself then go for it. Teaching is 10% about knowing what ur talking about and 90% knowing how to talk about it.
Just dont get too attached to your studemts, and remember: you wont be able to save everyone.
My sister is a nigger lover. I've tried to convince her what shes doing is wrong for years. Now she's a cliche single mother living off welfare. No self respecting man will go near her. She has been bouncing from groid to groid getting used or worse beaten. I want to rub it in her face that i was right. But shes so down. Should i?
>>16654444
Checked.
Checked?
>>16654444
Quads confirm you must literally rub niggers in her face
>text girl asking her out
>no response for 10 hours and counting
Did I fuck up? Is she thinking of a way to reject me? What did I do wrong? Is there still a chance?
Where you went wrong was doing it by text instead of in person. Now you'll just have to wait.
>>16654383
I know but I don't see her around campus very often soooooo
>>16654392
Tragic
Just turned 18
Parents have been warning me that they'll kick me out day 1 after highschool ends since I was 17
I've saved up 5k
I have no drivers licence
No friends or family ill be able to live with after I fail out of highschool
I used to be a lifegaurd/wsi/swim coach until my local employer, the YMCA, closed down.
Seems like the only option is to an hero once I get kicked out, Im totally accepting of killing myself too, I'm not depressed or sad either, just numb feeling and life doesn't seem worth living.
I don't think you can fail out of high school as long as you keep showing up.
Weeeeeeeellllll I guess I wrongly assumed I was worth someone's advice or time, often I over calculate how special I am,
I think it's just a coping method to make me feel like I'm worth something.
>>16654397
I haven't passed a class since sophomore year :/ I tried to join alternative classes but my parents wouldn't allow the school to do it. They say I am smart enough to do traditional schooling therefore alternative is out of the question.
Hey /adv/. It's time for a tumblrfag "muh feelings" thread. I recently went through a break up while on break at home away from all my friends at uni. My newfound Ex is really getting to me. I need anons to hear my story, and validate my Existence.
>Calls me one night, tells me it's over
>"You're perfect, and I don't want you to be sad"
>Agree to be friends
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She's garbage stop wasting your time and feeling awful over an ex. She wants to make you suffer any way she can.
>>16654375
Thank you Anon. You might not think it means a lot, but it does when you're emotionally vulnerable.
If she were wise she would have realized that being molested is a serious and personal thing and that you probably had good reasons for not telling her about it. You don't owe her the whole story.
Maybe if the person was someone who she knows personally like someone in her family, or someone she has met and spoken to, I can understand her being shocked and lashing out.
I started seeing this girl about two months ago and things are going great so far. We're still in the "honeymoon" phase of our relationship where everything is new and exciting; we have sex pretty much whenever she comes over and we just genuinely enjoy being with each other.
But there are two things on my mind:
1 - I'm a pretty sexually open person. I like trying new things. Previous girlfriends were pretty open as well and I found out some things that I really like. She's a little conservative but also very generous. I don't want...
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>>16654294
Lekker. I was like lekker. 30 secs later you said: lekker. I was like: this is way too lekker!
As long as you don't ask for scat or any other extreme fetishes you will be fine.
The pain from your ex will subside. It just takes time.
>>16654333
No, I'm not into that sort of stuff. I just like experimenting a bit here and there. I'm actually pretty tame, I suppose, by a lot of people's standards but I also have a pretty high sex drive.
So there is this girl on my class I'm 18 and I'm sure she's into me. I'll ask her out but idk what to do in it because I've never been on one before nor had a girlfriend.
I'm confident she will accept but what should I (or not) do?
I'm expecting something like:
"Since it's the first time you take this girl try and do weird shit to impress her"
"Be chivalrous"
or "Don't eat chipotle you'll shit your pants".
Also keep in mind I'm broke I have near no cash to spend
>>16654259
well first you got to decide what the date is. keep your budget in mind. you arent giving us much to wokr with.
'im broke' and 'near no cash' are two different htings. are you asking for ideas of free dates?
a lot of free dates are considered cheesy, like going out for a picnic or stupid shit like that. one thing you can do is research local events as there are often many free ones and ask her to go to one of those but its hard to say what she will respond well to.
>>16654286
Hey! Picknicks are awesome! You can actually enjoy nature, be free and get to talk. Unlike so many events! Fuck you!
Which of these instruments is more advantageous for me to learn long term?
Piano, Guitar, or Violin
Piano and guitar
>>16654222
Guitar. Pianos take up too much space and violins are limited in what you can play.
>>16654222
Guitar and Piano
It's my personal belief that once you've learned one stringed instrument, you can play them all.
Hey /adv/, I really could use some guidance.
I'm 19 years old. I had to drop out of high school my senior year for reasons beyond my control. I have a shit job as a "manager" at a pizzeria where I earn $7.75 an hour( been there for at least 5 Years started at $6 an hour.) My family has always been poor, so I've been soley supporting myself since I was 13, while helping my parents pay bills and even buying things for my brother and sister. My teeth are about 75% completely broken or rotted away because of a trampoline accident when I was 14 and I have...
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Shit man just hang in there, im trying to hold everything together too
>>16654230
I want off this ride :(
>>16654221
Make some friends, it's difficult, but in that situation you're stuck knowing your fate and constantly thinking of a dim future. You need someone or something to take your mind off of it so you have the energy to want to change it. I'm so sorry man I empathize for you. Hobbies also help, they can shift your thoughts to something else.
So...I was in love with a girl. We dated briefly and she was really into it but then revealed she has no time for a relationship and called it quits. Over the next couple of weeks, I said some awful things to her, calling her a liar, insincere, and heartless. I apologised a month later but she basically said she wants nothing to do with me and that she never expected I would act that way and say those things to her.
Am I a bad person? I said those things because I was hurt but she said I should have acted like an adult and just accepted it. I'm 25 btw. How do people...
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>>16654124
Normally people grieve and move on. Some people more some people less. You said it yourself you dated briefly, is she forced to to stick with you even though she doesn't find you attractive anymore? You are not a bad person but you showed weak character by pushing your negative emotions of rejection towards her.
>>16654124
"Has no time for a relationship" is a bullshit excuse, but the result is the same. She ought to have forgiven your outburst with your apology, but fuck it, you're done with her anyway. Just move on.
>>16654124
>am i bad a person
does it matter? if you can do it differently will you become a 'better person'? if so then just do it different in the future. you apologized, hopefully WITHOUT the intent of getting back together.
there is no 'normally' for heartbreak. some people will act like a fucking 12 year old after getting dumped. some people are literally pushed to murder becuase of it. others just cut all contact. others will argue iwht this person for...
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Guys, would it look a little weird if someone bribed their little sister with candy to have her sleep in their bed with them at night? The reason the guy does this is he recently broke up with his GF and misses having a girl with him at night. Should this behavior stop ? Or is ok
That definitely sounds creepy.
>>16654107
The fact that you've even considered this is really disconcerting.
I'm surprised you had a girlfriend to begin with.
>>16654107
That's weird OP. You shouldn't do that.