How do I stop thinking about it?
>be me
>long story short
>work at banquet hall
>quit around November 2014
>dated ex co-worker for a month in the spring of 2015 and broke up
>needed money for the holidays so I work there again
>have our work Christmas party few weeks ago
>second time I've seen her since I came backComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
What caused the breakup?
>>16672115
Her mom didn't approve of the age gap, ash the time she was17 and I ess 21
> I tell her to let me know when she turns 18
>she texts me every now and then from the time after the break up to a few weeks before her birthday
>a few weeks before her birthday she sends me a random text asking me how I am
>she moves into the meat and bones of her reason she texted me
>asks...
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>>16672115
Sorry m8, I'm unloading a lot because it's been bugging me so much for a while now
One of my friends got really drunk and messaged my gf saying she was really hot.
How do I react to this?
To be fair, he had to be carried to his door because he was fucking REKT.
Punch him
Ask him about it then laugh and hang out then get drunk together and then beat his ass knowing that he could potentially be fucker her already
>>16672099
Did your girlfriend tell you?
If yes, nothing is wrong.
If no, disown that bitch and beat the shit out of your "friend".
Is being attracted to little girls better than being gay? Like in a moral sense
Both is wrong m8
Don't worry about it.
Some little girls are more attractive than others, right? And some guys are more attractive than others, right?
Boom, you're a gay pedophile. Humans are attractive.
>>16672053
So what do you do?
Here a story guys, 1 Month ago I've met a Korean girl in Sarajevo, and I fell in love with her. Decided to tell her but that was her last day in city, but before that we have shared our contacts. Fast forward one month, it was last night . I told her that I like her I had to, and she told me she likes me too! And she asked me if I could come to Korea to visit her, later when she is finished with her traveling.
Now I need a lot of money for that trip, and there is no fucking way to earn or save that kind of money here in Bosnia. So i made a fundraising , and here I need...
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suck a million dicks for 1 euro each
You don't fall in love with someone in a day loser.
Also stop being stupid. Even if you manage to get that kind of money once, you won't be able to again. You probably can't move there since it's such a closed society. Thirdly, she's a complete stranger with a pretty face. Starting something will only hurt you both.
Sounds like you're more in love with the journey than the destination. And well if we told you how to go about having you're adventure it wouldn't be very adventuresome would it?
>Be me
>Be at a bookstore checking one of them bookshelfs
>Qt is also checking one like 3 mts away
>Look at her
>Look at her again. She was lookin at me and stops when I do. This happens twice.
>She moves to the bookshelf next to which I'm checking
>Spaghetti.gif
>Take the book I was looking for, pay it and get out of the...
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yes and no.
That happens constantly, it's up to you whether you have balls to do something about it, it takes balls to get a girl... There's no repercussion if you fail, you'll never see them again so man up
Maybe. Or maybe she was playing with you. Next time use the spaghetti to find out, via spoken word.
>>16671954
How mane. It would be creepy as fuck to come up like "yo what book you looking for tell me about it" imo.
Why do women like Russians so much?
At least here in Portland, they're so affectionate and flirter with Slavic men. Whether actually from East Europe or just native Portlanders of Slavic descent. And some of these fucks are chubby, out-of-shape assholes with no physically attractive traits to speak of. Yet still, they're always popular with girls. Gorgeous girls too. Why?
Cus they've got ballz
And you're a pussy white collar
Hи paзy видeл этy пpoиcхoдить в Пopтлeндe.
I take it you also buy into the BBC memes from /pol/ and /r9k/ alike. Or think women go for brash, abusive men. A common Russian stereotype.
BIG
really good ways to get a man to lose interest in his gf? (without cheating)
get him a fuckchick
Why?
i wanna watvh him fall outta love he doesnt fuvk with anyone that i know of and if he is idk.why he wouldnt just leave i mean. he already did stuff with someone else. i just cant get him to leave.me. lol...
im thinking abot doing a small tattoo
where do you think is a good place for a small tattoo?
what should i tattoo?
I'm not gonna suggest what you put on your body but if it's something small maybe under the wrist or the neck if your not sensitive there.
Tattoo's are fucking stupid and make you look like an edgelord.
You'll regret it when you're a responsible adult and you'll hate yourself for being such an edge lord when you're older
Upper arm, shoulder or maybe on your calf are all socially acceptable places for a tat.
Ignore matey here >>16672064 No one really gives a shit nowadays if someone has a tattoo as long as it isn't up your neck or on your face.Besides, you can always get it removed.
How do you reverse a growing addiction to cutting?
I've restarted cutting and the frequency and depth is increasing at an alarming rate. I don't want to end up gross and scarred and unlovable.
do you have a support system you can confide in?
do you feel shame in the already existing scars?
what makes you cut in the first place?
i had an ex who was a cutter and she fell into a vicious cycle of: anxiety from an eating disorder, coping with her anxiety by cutting, feeling bad about cutting and coping with her eating disorder, repeat.
you've gotta take a step out of the cycle.
>>16671906
>do you have a support system you can confide in?
Yes. I've told them and they generally don't care or don't want to hear about it.
>do you feel shame in the already existing scars?
Yes. An almost overwhelming amount.
>what makes you cut in the first place?
Racial self loathing. When I do it I feel a bit less hopeless.
>you've gotta take a step out of the...
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>>16671916
I know it's cold, but stop covering them up.
Face that shame you feel, after a good week of getting dirty looks from friends/family/strangers you'l think twice before adding another cut to the collection. Punish yourself with the shame of cutting, not cutting itself.
I have severe anxiety and panic attacks. Having trouble even leaving my house. I don't wanna take antidepressants I do take a benzo if it gets really bad. not sure what's the cause and ideas or advice?
hey man, I just got my first attack the other day. I mean it isn't that bad for me, but if you're having trouble leaving the house, definitely the thing you should be doing is getting professional help.
This is a treatable condition that can be fixed given tenacity and proper thinking patterns.
>>16671852
>>16671852
Thanks for your reply think i'm gonna go see another doctor soon to get their opinion. I gotta get this sorted and get back to my life
>>16671860
I can't get to sleep because of this shit, but it IS all in your head man. I've been taking deep breaths through my nostrils, counting to 4, pause, exhaling for 6, repeat.
Its helped settle me down and fight off two attacks tonight. That should help you for now, just the ability to control yourself is a good step. It is your mind, your its master, not its slave.
Hello there, what can I get you?
Something you need to talk about?
We can talk about me, too, if it helps get your head clear.
Just enjoy your stay.
>Advice Bartender thread
you got any gins?
>>16672089
got 47 bottles and can tell a story about each one of them.
fruity or dry?
Why do you give the advice
Why are women so much more smiley and nicer these days?
A few years ago, I would've had the creep label pinned on me just for being within their presence. But now they make eye contact with you and give you little smiles when doing so. Or are just so friendly and warm when talking to them. Even had a couple girls come up to me and randomly introduce themselves in the latter half of 2015.
Is this some kind of practical joke going on or what?
>>16671808
when being honest
in what points generally considered as "succesfull" did you improve yourself?
You have a poop stain on your ass crease, they're laughing at you
The girls who introduced themselves were really just trying to get close to you to sniff it. It's how you assert dominance in the animal kingdom. Long story short, they want to win your trust so they can cut off your dick and sell it on the deepweb. That's a thing now.
You're welcome.
>>16671814
I don't think I ever worked on myself in my life before. I've always been me doing me.
How can I stop thinking I'll be friends with my ex eventually?
We broke up cause we weren't a good fit in the long run and it wasn't the most civil break-up since he refused to talk about it in mature way and kept making stupid excuses, making me feel like shit about the whole thing due to that.
I realize that it might be better to not keep in touch but because I'm not very experienced socially I have this stupid thing where I want to be civil with everyone I've been close to. Like if I chose to be with him then there must be something...
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burn popcorn
or
kill your parents
it's all I could come up with OP
>>16671761
I think burning the pop corn would be helpful.
>>16671757
Most guys don't wanna talk to their ex's for a long time if at all.
Whenever me and my girlfriend have sex I can never climax or ejaculate. I've tried cutting off porn and not masturbating but I still have nothing. Any help?
I've never been able to cum when I'm with a girl... :/
>>16671763
What about when youre with men?
>>16671768
Well, I'm not gay. So I don't know
How do I get my boy friend to fuck me every-night instead of every morning?
Talking wont work. I already brought it up, but he enjoys his morning bj+sex way too much.
He says it makes him feel great and motivates him to get out of bed and power through his work day.
I on the other hand suffer from insomnia and the best medicine is a good shag before bed. I pass out almost everytime and if I dont round two always does the trick.
TLDR: how to we sync our sexual clocks, preferably in my favor.
Wear a sexy outfit before bed and beg for his dick. He would have to be gay to turn it down.
Why not both? Alternatively take the initiative. The average guys libido is pretty easy to trigger.
yeah not sure why you cant fuck both times