This chick has casual hookups and got out of a long term relationship
Should I go for it?
She says she wants to have fun for the time being
>>16688458
Do you hate your cock?
>She says she wants to have fun for the time being
What does that even mean? It's a rhetorical question as I'm sure it just mean clubbing, getting drunk, snorting coke and getting gangbanged.
Do you want it OP?
>>16688465
Not OP, but i sure want that.
tell me if I did the right thing
>at friends house drinking with a couple of other friends and my gf
>gf nags me for an hour straight for my brother to pick us up
>I finally ring him, he come to pick us up
>gf says she wanted to then stay there which is what I first suggested because our cars were there
>loose my shit at her, tell brother its all good and tell him sorry
> around 1am,...
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>>16688309
Haven't you posted this already?
>>16688313
no?, did I do the right thing?
>>16688309
>what ever your gf said was right, im not getting involved
It was ogre, of course you should have broke up with her.
How to save a shitty reputation?
You ask a girl out, she says no. You ask another girl out, she has a bf. You ask another, she wants to be le single and have fun. Eventually you ask everyone in your class.
Girls usually talk among themselves about guys and shit and if you asked a LOT of them out and you were rejected every time because of various reasons, you will only be considered pathetic.
In this case, is there any way to save such a reputation?
I mean isn't it better to be on your own with no one to give a damn about you?
>>16688238
Protip:
Don't date in the bowl you eat from.
Srs, dating with classmates is a bad idea. Ons are the best you can get, and even then it can be awkward.
You obviously have self confidence, why not go find them elsewhere like everyone else?
What the FUCK is up with that picture
>>16688243
>don't date with class mates
>don't date at work
>don't date from the gym
>don't hit up on girls on the street
Seriously, where the fuck am I supposed to date? I have like zero female contacts as it is... Man I'm like this close to just give up
On the couch with a cold. Got plenty of time to give well-meant advice for anyone who needs it!
that is exactly what I am also doing.
>>16688224
Isn't that what this board is about? Now this is my advice to you:
Give advice to people on their topics
>>16688225
Get well soon then!
My GF is Vietnamese and I'm white.
We've been dating for almost 3 years and she will never have a conversation with me and her parents at the same time. They like to talk whenever I go over, and if I'm talking to them she will either leave the room, or refuse to join the conversation.
Now I know damn well she speaks to them while I'm not there, so it definitely has something to do with me. This troubling since her parents speak broken English, and theres a language barrier that my GF could easily help with but she never does.
I was recently...
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I should also mention that ive talked to her about this before. Her answer was that I don't talk to her parents that much and she just wants let me talk with them. But after two years I can't remember once where we all had a conversation together.
I know her parents stress her out like crazy, and I feel it may have something to do with it.
bumping one more time. any advice?
What an odd situation. Although I've grown up with some Asian friends and relatives, and I know introducing a foreign bf or gf can be hard, I've never heard of something like this.
I can guess what your gf's motives are, but she's the only one who can tell you. I would urge younto talk about this again, in a non-accusing way. Approach it with a "let's try to fix this together" attitude, rather than telling her how this is weird or upsetting to you. Because whatever your girl' motives are, this situation is hard enough for her to...
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Looking for a bit of /adv/ice here please, I don't come on this board often so I don't really know if I will get good advice.
I live in dormitories at college with 10 rooms and we all share a kitchen. We do stuff together, we see each other and everything. One of the girls is really cute and I want to ask her out but this is difficult because I will live with her for the rest of the year, and because I have never asked a girl out before.
I see her in the kitchen, I talk to her and often she will be alone. I was thinking that the best thing to do would...
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>college
>living with girls
If you haven't gotten together drunk and yet then it's never going to happen.
>>16688203
This.
Also, if you see her alone so much, just ask her if she wants to hang out. She's obviously free. If she says no, then oh well- she's just a loner.
Nobody in my flat drinks too much. It's a bit strange.
I want to ask her out to do something. Should I invite her out directly and do dinner, or try and invite her to something subtle that is sort of a date.
How do people with no experience find better jobs than minimum wage pseudo-full-time ones?
I'm not talking about going back to university or getting some training, because I need a better paying job immedietly. What I am getting paid now is not enough for maintaining a healthy standard of living.
I live in a medium city in Ireland. I look at job ads, but all of them require training, a degree or experience. I applied to job agencies to find some factory work. When I go in person they just say to send e-mail and wait. I haven't heard from them since.
I...
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Nepotism
>>16688166
You get paid what you're worth- if you have no skills, you get peanuts.
Learn to do something useful.
>>16688166
Emailing gives you the lowest odds. No face, no personality, just a fuckin email.
Show up, in person, dressed as if you work there already or as professional as you can, and have a quality resume on hand. Politely ask for assistance in finding someone who does hiring. POLITELY. Be sincere and thankful, and ask if it's ok to exchange info for a follow up.
Directly relate whatever skills you have to what he job requires. Tell them that you are a fast learner, and are willing to be fired if you...
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Hello, /adv/.
Both of my parents are Muslim. They were born and raised Muslim, and they have decided to continue this tradition with their children. The problem is, though, that I am an atheist. Even better, I’m a 18-year old girl. I live in the U.S. It took me a long time to even admit to myself that I was an atheist. My parents often use religion to deny me things, such as hanging out with my friends, having a boyfriend, etc. I’m not allowed to dress as my friends, and every weekend they drag me off to Madrasa. Madrasa is a Muslim school that I spend roughly seven hours...
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>>16688162
Keep your mouth shut until you move out and look to move out as soon as you can.
>>16688285
This. Save up some money, go to college, respect your parents as much as you can, and plan on living on your own. It might devastate them when you drop the bomb, but hopefully that will be a while from now and you will be independent. Just tell them, as best as you can, that you aren't as strongly religious as they are. You will still work to be a good person, and religious ceremony just has to take the back seat for now. If they don't accept it, don't fault them. Just try to make a life you can enjoy.
What previous anons said! Make sure to fix a nice life for yourself without telling your parents, as it's highly probably they won't understand and make it really hard on you and themselves. Unfortunately I guess a big part of that means you'll have to sit things out until you can move out and do your own thing.
As for a more temporary solution, wouldn't it be an option to try and fill your weekends with other things that are possibly more important than weekend religious school? Maybe extra tutoring, sports, playing a musical instrument? If they're...
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What are your best manipulation techniques ? And for which purpose do you use them ?
I think the best way to manipulate someone is by gaining their trust. There is no magical technique you can use on everyone, it's not like that, you need to find what someone values or what you can give them, work towards achieving that in their mind and then trade. Your trade should be mutual, you offer them something, they offer you something.
Don't believe the Machievelli stuff either, that will get you no where in the real world when you have 0 power. It will actually destroy you faster than you can gain. You should instead follow the anti-machievelli advice...
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>>16688088
To get girls.
I manipulate her and her friends. Driving a huge rift between them so that I can replace them in her heart. Then ask her out once she has no one left and she'll usually cave from fear of losing me as well.
Technique wise I wait for even the mildest argument and reaffirm her beliefs as much as possible. Snitch on her friends to her as much as possible. Create intentional misunderstanding through omission. Give her terrible advice that will make her feel better but isolate her.
Sure is edgelord in here.
I've been trying to act alpha for few months at new school, not flirting with girls, just harmless non-needy chatting etc, but I heard there have been rumours around me that I am gay.
Why? What should I do? Should I start being more flirty?
Pic not related
Your talking to all women like regular people (zero flirting) don't have a girlfriend, and act alpha.
You gay?
>>16688003
Come out of the closet.
>>16688003
>alpha
>not flirting
>harmless
Doesn't sound alpha to me. Alpha has the word 'tough' associated with it.
i am still on the road to suicide.
>>16688002
That road always has a little rest stop called 'post it on 4chan'.
Come on nigga, get off the ledge. There's a world full of pussy and hot tubs and zip lining. Go do something fun.
>>16688006
i cant wait to kill myself.
>>16688011
Yes you can. That's why you're still on the road. That's why you're posting. You've been waiting the whole time and you're gonna keep waiting.
If you have the balls blow your head off, you have the balls to live a successful life.
If you're too scared for both, then stop wasting my time.
Hey I'm a 19 year old male with a 5.5 inch penis, what is the general opinion of women when they see an "average" dick
yes, I am a virgin.
>>16687992
i am a 22 y/o male with a 5.5 inch penis and i have never in my life had a complaint made by any of the 5 women i've had sex with.
ur good homie.
"oh look a dick"
bro, if you've gotten to the point where they're seeing your dick an average one isn't gonna put them off. if anything your insecurity will act as a self fulfilling prophecy.
>>16687992
Why are you asking about penis size when you can't even get a girl to be interested in you?
If you're at the stage where you're naked with a girl she won't take out a ruler and measure you out then if it's not a 9 inch python decide to leave.
That's literally the least of your problems right now.
>I'm 19
What a baby.
What are some excellent college majors to pursue? I'm planning on going the Computer Science route currently. If I could I'd major Physics but I've heard it's nearly impossible to get a job in academia.
Do what you want to do. It's not the major that counts, it's what you do with it that matters
>>16687920
Accounting
Electrical Engineering
Nursing +Pre-Med
Anything else WILL be called a meme major at some point on 4chan. (And to be honest, the above probably has as well)
>>16687923
That is false. If you can't get a job with your degree, you're wasting time.
Gf might be going to jail for 6 months to a year for snapping at a stalker.
I love her so much, what do I do?
Does anyone know what female prison is like?
>>16687896
Break up. She's gonna scissor like crazy in the slammer. Best get some stank on your hang down while you can.
For snapping at a stalker? Op why are you so full of shit?
So I might be a Borderline sociopath, I haven't been diagnosed but I've had problems for a long time an this clicks along with some other things.
Does anyone have experience dealing with this
See a psychiatrist, so many people are ''arm-chair'' diagnosing themselves.
>>16687891
>i haven't been diagnosed
Then you aren't.
My doctor won't listen to me so I can't get a referral and I can't afford going to the wrong person.
The reason I think I am is cause I have no emotions towards anything, when I'm alone I feel like a machine just breathing an eating an possible killing myself or someone else.
But when I'm with people all I feel is disappointment an sadness an just a roller coaster of emotions