Had a good childhood, aside from disliking my dad.
Parents got divorced when I was 8, all good.
Elementary school is good.
Starting to get bullied from 5th grade on.
Life sucks
Make friends in 8th.
overweight, but aside from that:
Suddenly have a bunch of friends, get along well with everyone.
Education is going well too.
Financial situation is good.
Everything these days should be great, but:
>absolutely hate myself
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Op ask yourself what you want out of life. Remember that with no goal there will be no destination.
You can have great surroundings and be well off but doesn't mean your happy, that's just the staple to being happy now you just have to do what you love
>dysthymia: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/persistent-depressive-disorder/home/ovc-20166590
>major depression: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depression/basics/definition/con-20032977
If any of these look like they ring a bell, go see a psychaitrist.
figlio di troia
Piss off with your beaner speak
Girl before this, came in around 10-15 minutes, multi-orgasmic, rarely got too sensitive, and was loud and wasn't afraid to say what she wanted during oral.
Current girl, quiet, takes about 35 minutes, sometimes more, single orgasmic, immediately after is too sensitive for any more, the only thing she says is "that hurts" when I give too much stimulation, doesn't say anything else on what she wants, needs to be completely relaxed, and the only way I know she came is when all of her shakes at the end.
Why are girls so different from each other?...
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There is nothing you can do
enjoy your frigid bitch
>>16780098
>Why are girls so different from each other?
Because they literally are different people. In theory you know that already. This new girl isn't like the old one. She won't do shit the old one did. Her body reacts differently.
Maybe see a therapist if this is depressing you. If you are making her cum you are doing a good job, so learn to be happy with that.
Try talking to her about it sex is like 50% of a relationship if your not getting what you want then tell her
How do I deal with being an idiot?
I'm reasonably "book smart", and a good communicator, but I'm just generally stupid when it comes to making important decisions and retaining important information. I see my peers excel at every turn and I just coast along like I always have.
Am i doomed to living a below-average life, where I'm always disappointed in my own shortcomings?
I'm in college. STEM major.
>>16780097
>STEM major.
You didn't need to say this, it was obvious from your first two sentences.
>>16780107
alright
I need advice
tl;dr
Co-Worker is trying to get me fired from my job
I need advice for an odd situation at work,
long story short, friend of mine who is a girl (I'm a guy) and a co-worker suddenly went silent on me and I found out she was speaking to management about me.
Now, I'm usually the guy to keep his nose clean and while I've been in this situation before, I can honestly say I haven't done anything wrong to this girl.
To cover the basics and most obvious questions:
-No, I did not date her
-No, I did not sexually harass her in any way
-No, I did not verbally offend her in any way
-No,...
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>>16780094
>>cont
I realize now that she must have been angry because I may have jeopardized her new position or whatever.
Another part of me thinks she might just think I'm the disgruntled employee!
I don't know what to think, but today I found out she was talking to security about me and is planning on getting me fired, probably reporting every single thing I do.
So, I need advice on how to proceed. It's made me very angry and I want to protect...
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Sounds like honest miscommunication. Whatever happens, just remember it's out of your control and to accept the situation.
Why is it that people often assume that plan/boring/generic looking people are plain/boring/generic people? It seems like people forget that not everyone expresses their uniqueness or difference through their hair, clothes, makeup, tattoos, piercings, or any other visible article.
Or am I wrong? Are plain looking people more often than not plain people? Are plain looking people rarely interesting people?
they can't read minds, that's why
Plain looking people are rarely interesting people. That's not to say that they don't think they're interesting. They're just kidding themselves.
The look of an interesting person isn't so much about garish displays of non-conformity though. It's subtle. It's in a person's flair, the details of their style. Those are the ways that a personality leaks out into the open. The conscious overtures and demands for attention aren't that meaningful.
>>16780113
>The look of an interesting person isn't so much about garish displays of non-conformity though. It's subtle. It's in a person's flair, the details of their style
I like this post.
how the fuck do people get to the point of having sex?
im 20 years old and ive never done anything sexual with a girl, despite people calling me handsome and charming. im really awkward and just don't get how the fuck people go from being complete strangers to boning. fuck how do people go from knowing each other to boning? what the shit??
>>16780046
hang out + passion
>>16780050
Basically this.
First, you meet the person. Get to know them, judge if it's someone you'd get along with, etc.
Once you decide they're chill, you start hanging out, usually with mutual friends, and get to know each other more. Eventually you share phone numbers, start calling/texting each other more and more. Everytime your phone rings or Facebook messenger goes off you hope it's them.
Then eventually you're hanging out alone and you start to flirt, get touchy feely, start kissing. One thing leads to another and then boom, you're banging.
I'm applying to college in the united states soon. What's a good activity (volunteering related) to have for a college application?
Something community-oriented.
>>16780025
A high GPA. That's it homie
>>16780034
I already have that but all I do is track/cross country and I'm looking to apply to some selective schools
I need advice on NATURALLY gaining weight. People regard me as scrawny. I will change that no matter what.I am male 5ft 3in, and 100lbs.
>>16780003
Eat well with enough protein and lift 5x8 while getting enough sleep.
What kind of a response are you expecting?
Squatz n oatz
>>16780003
Eat like a horse. Doesn't even have to be healthy. If you're naturally skinny it means you have a great metabolism. So you don't have to do the fancy fucking diets like everyone else. Just eat and lift, that's it. Everytime you're on the road go get some fast food. Lift really heavy so you're in a state of perpetual rubber arms. you'll grow.
So i met this girl in internship. shes cute and got a crazy ass. I kinda like her, but ive only met her once. Shes lives an hour away from me on the train. Im not bad with the ladies nor social-wise, but this seems edgy. Should I yolo it, and just go to her place? (We're alone and her parents are out of town). Generic photo not related.
Has she actually invited you over or are you inviting yourself over?
Yes she has. Several times over the past week. Her father apparently needed to know, for planning to leave the house.
>>16779996
>Im not bad with the ladies nor social-wise, but this seems edgy.
Why? You a old fart or something?
I think i have strong feelings for someone who is in a relationship with someone else. I've felt normal crushes/infatuations with others as well as felt it from people who had crushes on me, but somehow this feels like something totally different. In the weirdest sense I almost feel like I can feel their presence and I get this insane rush, am I just delusional?
>>16779982
Yes youre retarded
>>16780002
How?
>>16780010
>theyre taken
>you put them on a pedastal
>think you can feel their presence
Hey /adv/, quick question. I've booked an appointment with my doctor soon and I'm going to finally bring up my phimosis (mine's not that bad but I still want it fixed before I have sex). Just a few questions.
Anyone else suffered or dealt with phimosis?
What treatment did you get?
Will I be able to get the steroid cream people talk about?
What sort of things will the doctor ask?
Sorry if I come across as naive, just a bit embarrassed about this, haven't even told my parents. I really want to avoid a circumcision btw and I'm scared...
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>>16779938
I fixed my phimosis myself with daily stretching. He will give you a cream that speeds up the process. If he wants to do something else, get a 2nd opinion.
Nothing to sorry about Anon
>>16779968
Same. You don't need special medication, just stretch your skin while you take warm/hot showers.
Anons, i had a neat idea for vday. But i need your help. My bf and i both love to travel and it would be awesome if people could draw a heart with our initials in all kind of places all over the world. This way we could go traveling and search for them. Perfect scenario would thus be that you draw a heart with "s&t" inside, take a pic and tell me the exact location (coordinates would be neat). This would mean a lot to me
I just created a throw away email for this. It's [email protected]
>>16779848
why would anyone do that shit for you?
>This would mean a lot to me
Who the fuck cares?
>>16779939
This. It's a nice idea but not /adv/ for this, and there's no a huge incentive for people to actually do it. Plus, most people here are bitter as fuck about vday, so there's that.
I'm tempted to do it as I live in a place you most likely never would reach, though.
So I am late 20s, I have had 2 legitimate loves in my life but they did not pan out. I am active, have a good job, funny, and personable. I have been forever alone for 1.3 years and haven't found anyone worth it...what do?
Just get on with living your life. Somebody will come along when you least expect it, don't try to force it else you'll make yourself unhappy.
>>16779849
Disregard this, anon doesn't know what he's talking about. Your prince/princess won't just fall from the sky into your lap, if you actually want a partner you have to actively search for him/her. Go to social gatherings, talk to strangers, show interest, take chances. You'll eventually find someone. Or you won't, who knows, but you sure as hell have more chances if you're actually trying.
>>16779838
>had 2 legitimate loves
>forever alone for 1.3 years
What?
How do I switch doctors? I have had the one have now ever since I became too old for a pediatrician, and only because my parents enrolled me with her.
I don't like her. She's unpleasant to talk to and seems to ignore me/cut me off when I'm talking sometimes. I actively avoid making appointments now because it would mean interacting with her.
In the UK you just ask for a different doctor when booking an appointment.
>>16779861
I'm American sadly.
>>16779832
Look up available docs on your insurance website. Then look up the docs on a the internet and see what their ratings are. I've found that you can go by these limited bits of information. In a few cases, they kept me away from specialists who were real jerks.
When you find one that seems OK, call and make a new patient appointment. Good luck.