Hello /adv/ here is the situation
>On a 4 year relationship with a gf I love and she loves me back
>Basically our sex life is non-existent
>I'm horny all the time
>there is that MILF that always hits on me, and would surely have sex with me if I asked her
>Don't want to break up with my girlfriend, but I'm very horny and fapping dosen't help me anymore.
Don't be a fucking coward. Talk to your girlfriend about your sex life and what you need in the relationship. If that won't work out, break things off, and THEN go prowling for ass.
I'm 34 M. Is it bad that I get carded when I order a drink? Me and a bunch of coworkers went out (some younger some older). I was the only one carded. Do you consider that to be insulting or flattering?
post a picture.
age itself means nothing. there are plenty of ugly young people. there are plenty of ugly old people
post a of you right now, a quick shot of yourself, and well tell you whether its insulting or not.
problem here problem her I do really love her. But the sex is kinda vanilla. Have talked about this allready and it has changed for the better slightly. But it's still not what I'm used to and I would like her to be more active and spontaneous cause it allways has to come from me.I do really love her. But the sex is kinda vanilla. Have talked about this allready and it has changed for the better slightly. But it's still not what I'm used to and I would like her to be more active and spontaneous cause it allways has to come from me. Im the first guy to make...
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Talk to her about it and give her time. Don't have a mid-high expectation from someone with little experience. In my relationship, I fucking sucked having sex and making out for the first year. I'm her second boyfriend and she's my first, so she probably had someone way better than I at first. Took some time and now the sex is great after getting more comfortable and satisfying our fetishes. Speak to her about your fetishes, anything.
I did but she says she is not comfortable doing what I want and I allways do my best to let her feel that's okay to be nasty in between the sheets but she doesnt really feel comfortable doing so. The last girl I slept with was a total freak. Like slamming her ass in to me and saying things like I need your dick now and cum on me. And when she sucked that D she was sucking like there was no tomorrow. Now when I finally have somebody I want to go steady with I would like the sex to be like this as well. But she puts up this shy face and then stutters out f-f-fuck me tries it once or twice and kinda forgets about it. Now I do really love her but im getting kinda annoyed by it and it is seeping in to our daily lives and I was hoping I could avoid that
>Girl A: uni dropout, NEET, severely mentally ill, doesn't take care of her body, gets hospitalised at times, only things she does is watch anime and go to therapy
>Girl B: university student, takes care of appearance, works out, decent social life, various interests, has her share of problems but knows how to deal with them
This might sound like a weird question, but which girl sounds more interesting? Which one would you rather get to know?
Is being a state trooper a good job? Of not, what are some good government jobs that pay well and aren't total BS? I want to do CIA but obviously I'm not guaranteed to get in.
Today i've decided that this is a day i should start focusing solely on myself. I want to become independent, confident and well-mannered man. I want to stop thinking about what-ifs, why certain things happened. Instead, i desire to be a person who can say "forget about it, i'm moving on" Thing is, since the plans are very big i don't have any idea how should i start. Could you suggest where i should start? Do you have any ideas for the first small steps i should be taking?
People of /adv/, tell me your deep dark secrets.
Anything you want to get off your chest. Anything you want feedback about but are too afraid to ask anyone.
I'm in love with my friend, or at least I think I am, but he often treats me like shit. I try hard to stop being a doormat and cut it but every time I do, I miss him a lot.
I also can't stop eating unhealthy foods because food is my comfort thing, and I'm always sad/stressed/angry etc so I eat like a pig
I quit my job a week ago and started a new one this week. I'm super confused because the new job isn't what I thought it was.
+Worked with computers
+worked in NYC
+my boss and I became friends
-3 hour total commute daily
-I worked every single evening from home and a lot of weekends.
-no commute pay
-no time to pack lunch so I spent $15-20 a day on food alone
+Union, no chance of getting fired
+after 6 months, great benefits
+manly job that...
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Not so easy. This new job I got was really hard to get. It is a Union job and I can't just switch to another branch.
Also, welding or carpentry doesn't interest me. Thanks for the advice though.
Im a biological male and 22 years old. Ive been on hormone therapy since I was 19 and im maybe starting to have some second thoughts. Im starting to think it might only be a sexual thing. I LOVE wearing cute stuff and getting abused like a slut by men. Always imagined being a girl when masturbating. I started saying to myself how much better it would be to be a girl.
Anyone got any expierience with this?
There's this girl I have crush on but I don't know her at all, I was wondering how I should approach her. Directly or indirectly (Her friends)? I want to get know her then eventually ask her out, which is no problem.
Thanks in advanced!
I normally see her walking around with friends and oncecin a while, alone. I see her almost everyday. I know her from a PE class I used to be in with her, I switched to ROTC though.
Should I care that my GF sleeps with a gay guy whenever there is no other bed and lets him touch her and kinda cuddle? Friendly touching not groping or anything.
Frankly, I'm not bothered by it and don't give a shit but should I? The guy openly talks about his boyfriends, how he's a bottom and all that stuff. He's literally a stereotypical gay guy. Whenever we started dating, he actually convinced my GF that we should become official and not just friends.
What should I give to my boyfriend of 6 months?
What I got so far is:
>a chocolate bar
>a sticker referencing an inside joke
and I'm planning on making a little card with a drawing and a list of things that make him a great boyfriend
>all this in a little white cardboard box
Is this too much?
What would you suggest?
I do not want to seem clingy/obsessive.
I'm dating a guy that I've only known for 2 months and I'm planning on buying him high-quality rum, a card, and some cute sweets, also thinking of baking for him.
GO ALL OUT. Just do it. Don't worry about seeming clingy or obsessive, if you're worried about that shit after half a year then clearly your relationship has issues.
I fucked a hooker.
should I feel ashamed?
i've heard carpentry is extremely profitable and easy. i am looking for a job but i don't know what to do. i thought carpentry could be a good call because its highly paid and you barely have to sweat.
does anyone here on /adv work with carpentry? share your experiences.
Either a shill by some kind of national carpentry group or one guy who started something to turn into a meme and possibly doesn't even really do that for a living and just picked it randomly.
My experience with carpentry included lots of drinking on the job and lots more drinking after the job.
Money was pretty good i guess, but don't listen to the carpentry fags who say it will fix all your problems. I've lived the carpentry life dog and it ain't all glamour
Want to hang out with a girl that I've only met once before
We are kinda getting serious and want to date but don't have a place to hang out really right now. I want to go for a cruise or something but we live in a shitty snowy rural area so there's nothing really to do but look at fields and snow and the closest restraunts are far kinda I mean I'd do go grab a bite if I had to but
Is it stupid to just kinda drive around and maybe park for a bit just to talk?
It's a little bit boring but it could work. I'm in the same boat as you OP but I usually drove her somewhere nice because I cares about her.
But that didn't turn out well so I may as well gave drove into the snow filled ditch and told her to get out.
Do you live in Canada OP?