had a dream I was with the hot chick in school that hung out with me a few times
>had a dream we were alone together in a room and she was laying on a bed
>she asks me come lay with her and I get on the bed
>she tells me to come closer and I move up to her and start spooning her and I put my arm around her and hold her
>I close my eyes to cuddle and I feel something move my hand
>I open my eyes and she's putting her...
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When I was 14 I had a dream the hot girl kissed me.
I've never been kissed, (20 now), and it still kills me to today that I can't find anyone to help me figure out whether my dream was accurate or not.
>>16794585
Okay that's way sadder thank you
>>16794589
You're welcome
I studied in the UK from a non EU country. Due to the high international fees, I couldn't afford to accept my first choice (22k/year), and studied Maths at a second-tier, but otherwise top 10, Uni. I was demoralised to the ground, and had to work full time to even have as chance at affording the 16k/year fees, for a Uni I did not want to attend (but had to remain being a full-time student to have a chance at obtaining a citizenship).
I was slowly sinking deeper and deeper in my own shit, and went full /r9k/ in third year. 3000hours in video games, attended maybe...
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I'm going insane waiting for replies...
Do I even stand a chance?
Is ritalin as addictive as people say it is or is it just one of those things that has a lot of scare tactics to keep people from getting too grabby with it?
I have a prescription but I'm afraid of taking it and just becoming a zombie without it
Any form of pharmaceutical speed is addictive. I've experimented with adderall after getting some very easily from my doctor when I thought I had ADHD, and I still have some which I use every so often. I'd say start slow and don't do it as much as your doctor says. I'd do 10mg every other day or every few days. Don't do it consecutively, that's what gets you addicted. Just be safe and don't over do it or you will get a dependency for it and you'll find that the only way to get motivation is from that drug.
after having dedicated the entirety of 2015 to a girl i was incredibly in love with, and spending much of december trying to plan out the most elaborate valentines celebration, i realised i'm in love with a fellow dude. we got talking in december and talk pretty much every day, sometimes just a few messages, sometimes insanely long conversations, and i think i realised my feelings pretty early on, but didnt wanna admit them. I was really traumatised by the thought i could like a guy, i saw a counsellor and asked for advice and she basically reassured me everything was okay...
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>>16794546
>cont
But, it became really stressful keeping this from him, and i eventually cracked and brought it up one day on facebook to him, and he seemed to respond quite casually about it, and nothing really seems like its changed between us, i think.. I dont know, we're really close, and we share a lot of common interests and aspirations in life.. we've hung out in person a few times over the past month, and just recently at a concert we both went to, where i really felt like...
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>>16794546
>cont again bc i have so much to say
when we were at this performance together it was the most vivid night of my life, and even though there was a celebrity up on stage, i felt so much more preoccupied by him and how happy he looked. Really, i dont regret saying how i felt, i was glad i was able to say it out loud. Even though his response was questionable, he didnt seem awkward or upset, and we talked when we both got home safely, and then again today. I really appreciate this...
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i could honestly talk about this forever, i feel like i'll never get sick of this guy, some of the stuff we've done together has been so memorable, like walking over a bridge and singing to eachother, laying in a field of grass listening to music and holding hands, the entire night at the concert, all my time spent with him or talking to him has been fantastic, i hope i get to make many more memories with him in the future. i really am in love, and i know im so worried and concerned about the future for us, but at the same time i feel so incredible, it's such...
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My ex contacted me out of the blue last week. We talked some and he suggested a casual meeting over coffee sometimes. I said that it's fine.
It's been six days now. I'm starting to think that he isn't even going to call me, and that he just wanted to test me somehow. (Although I'm hoping that at 28 he'd be too old for such.)
So it's been soon a week. I just feel like, that cause he dumped me, if he reaches me out after like three weeks, it would give him the signal that I was waiting for him and always ready to be there for him...
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Bumb.
But you clearly are waiting for him? Maybe you should be honest and let the dice fall as they will.
>>16794708
Well, of course. But I don't wanna be played or used one way or another or I don't wanna him to think that he has the upper hand.
Why is it whenever you show in an interest in a girl and she shoots your down, she'll still come up to you out of nowhere, whether at school or public, and still try to strike up a conversation and act friendly like nothing ever happened?
I don't get that behaviour. You already made it clear that you like nothing about the person, so why even retain close calls? You're free to never speak to them again. Otherwise it's just taking the rejection and rubbing it in. Not to mention sticking around (as friends) with someone who's made to clear that...
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Just because you're not compatible as romantic partners doesn't mean you're not compatible as friends.
>>16794538
You actually are incompatible as friends at that point. You don't have good chemistry then, you're not going to have good chemistry ever. Plus, it's just a flat-out insult to being turned down. It's like having a potential employer not only turn your down for a job, but calling and emailing everyone you know and telling them you were didn't get hired.
>>16794538
Yea, but timing? You don't just reject someone who likes you and act like everything is okay. If they are compatible as friends, you give it time to heal. Otherwise the girl just looks like she wants the man as a orbiter, not a friend.
I'm not OP and not even male by the way.
Hey Guys,
You probably remember my name is John, and I want to apologize to every single one of you. I'm pretty sure most of you arent fat and are probably cleverer than I said, and if you guys want to look at pictures and stuff, then that's cool, everyone has a different life. The world is here to be shared, and I'm happy to share it with you guys. Most of you have probably got pussy before, anyway... I had a look around and there was a picture of a bitch being plowed by a guy with "RON PAUL /b/" written on his dick. I mean, I guess it's fun...
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Wrong board.
So, girl loves me and I love her, I'm this star in her life and without me her life just wouldn't be the same. Well, we were dating at one point but on the down low she was also dating old bf (yeah, call me a cuck) it wasn't a big deal to me. Shit happens, breakup but still loves me the same and wants to do everything again, but then says she doesn't want to be back together but still wants me to be in her life and be the same loving guy. What do I do?
>>16794533
>(yeah, call me a cuck)
You're a cuck.
>What do I do?
Cut all contact. The greedy whore is literally asking you be an orbiter.
>>16794727
Yep, this anon is correct. Don't be love blind.
>>16794727
She's mostly doing it for her other bf, the manchild
once you're homeless, is all hope lost? I will be homeless very soon and with all these politicians wanting to cut welfare and shit I'm wondering if I should just kill myself. I'm a 19 year old male btw can't go to uni because of grades in high school.
Apply for every job you can. Try and stay with friends if you can, for as long as you can.
Once you become homeless, use the showers at a beach or the sink in a public toilet to keep clean.
Many restaurants and fast food places will discard food thats perfectly fine. Some churches will even donate food to you if you search hard enough. Keep applying for jobs.
If you can manage to find a job, try and save as much as you can for as long as you can, you might be homeless, but buying that chocolate or whatever to feel better is just impeding progress.
Once...
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Get a gym membership some is free in some countys. Get free shwoers and get fit.
Use public library to get wifi and look for jobs.
Get a cheap gas station phone as you wait for job calls.
>>16794534
So you don't think all hope is lost?
I’m fairly drunk, so please excuse anything that doesn’t make sense. Mild drunkardness was the only state in which I could do this. Whatever this is.
I have something to say, but saying it would mean that I’ve said it, which I’ve always said is ‘too chocked by finality’, or however the saying goes*
But here I am with the thing gathering steam on my tongue, and I gotta get it out before it burns my mouth.
I can no longer tell the difference between opinion and fact, between earnestness and sarcasm or an artwork and an ad. I’m not saying this...
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OP.....Even I fell a little bit in love with you reading that.
Good luck!
That's a nice thing to say. And thanks for the luck. I'm going to sleep soon and hoping it will be shared somewhere - Facebook or something. But I'm not holding my breath. Once again, thank you.
Also, i've just joined 4chan, and joined reddit too. I've posted it a few times on different subreddits/blogs, but am not sure if that's an uncool thing to do. Anyway. Definitely sleep now. I should stop refreshing the page. Cheers to all.
I'm 20 years old and I've never had anyone interested in me. I've asked out plenty of girls, all of which have said no. I'm a decent human being and I'm fairly smart.
People are even genuinely surprised when they find out I've never had a girlfriend or had sex.
I feel shitty all the time. I can't help feeling like I'll be alone forever while other people get to go through multitudes of partners and break up with them for seemingly minor reasons.
Any advice would be golden
did you ever did the 16 personalities test?
You're just 20. You still have plenty of years where you will mature into an adult. Don't sweat it.
>>16794457
Nope. Decided to do one now I got ESTP-A (Entrepreneur)
So, I'm 22, I've been in love with her since I was 16 years old and it's not getting any better. Every women I meet seems like a terrible attempt at copying her and I have trouble sleeping because of her. She's not ever talking to me again because of this huge fight we had (some really harsh words fucked everything up). Is suicide the only option?
yeah, jump off somewhere really high and do a flip.
restart your life in Paraguay
>>16794447
Kek
But thats a solid advice
I'm 25 and still feeling my way around the world.
How do I avoid a midlife crysis?
I would buy crysis when it's brand new, not wait until it's midlife.
>>16794442
you can't have a midlife crisis if you aren't in the middle of your life retard.
>>16794473
Nobody avoids a midlife crisis when they reach midlife.
PREVENT midlife crisis.
I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 11 months now. It's been a fairly good relationship with some hiccups. It's long distance now since I started university but I'm going back this weekend for her birthday and Valentines day.
But she has been in the process of moving over the past few months. In her group of friends one is an ex-boyfriend. He's not a threat to my relationship but he clearly still has feelings at least on some level. My girlfriend has been planning to move in with her current house mate and two long term friends (including this ex) for a few months.
The thing is it didn't start bothering me until her plans became more concrete. It's been in the works for 4 months now and she was really stressed about finding a house she could afford. Now it's finally happening and we're approaching this weekend I just feel irritable, depressed, anxious and fucking livid that this is happening.
I consulted friends and they all gave me a strange look when I said she was moving in with her ex. I'm going to talk to her tonight but what should be my end plan here?
Not a whole lot you can do unless you have somewhere else you can offer her to move to. Or convince her ex to find somewhere else, and find a replacement to move in with them.
You can't really say "no" now without it fucking things up for four people. If you really can't handle it, end plan should be breaking up.
>Moving in with ex
Oh yeah doesn't sound like a red flag at all man
how the fuck did you let this situation come to this point lol? really through all these months it didnt set an alarm in your head that she's gonna live with her ex under the same roof and that every day you're away you will think what's happening there?
I've been a vegetarian my entire life (when I was very little my parents would't give me meat, and then I decided for myself I didn't want it).
There are a few reasons for why I now want to start eating meat:
* It seems to be healthier (some vegetarians disagree, but from what I've read it really does seem to be better to eat meat). Most importantly it increases testosterone levels, something that I feel I need.
* I want to be able to eat meat when I'm invited over for dinner. They shouldn't have to make any special dishes for me.
*...
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>>16794378
Don't mean to sort of hijack, but likewise how does one eat vegetables when one finds them repulsive?
for your first time, don't cook it yourself. Go to a steakhouse and order a fancy steak. It will smell and taste so delicious, and it won't look as gross as if you were to cook a raw piece of meat for yourself.
Meat is gross in a technical sense- it's an animal carcass so it's not off for you to associate it with the idea of flesh.
I personally wishe I could stop eating meat because morally I think it's questionable, but it's so good I can't help myself.
Taste it for yourself and you'll see.
>>16794378
You could always go with seafood, feels less repulsive than a dead pig