This will probably sound stupid, but I'm scared guys. I'm scared because I don't know what to do.
Backstory
>one or two friends from 1st-7th grade
>small school and girls were cliquish
>i was actively made fun of by them
>no one wanted to be near me
>that's how it was
>moved schools in 8th grade
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Sad bump then I'll let it die.
>>16849157
first and foremost, please post a pic. i can help further tailor your approach with that. its not about ugly or attractive. its about your look. certain people can only get laid by being a douche. some people can only get laid being the sweet innocent qt boy.
it depends on how you look and i need to see that.
>>16849157
>>16849359
NOW, with that in mind, you have to ask her out. i know, shocking right? turns out you have to ask girls out if you want to go on a date with them. i tried finding another way, but they were all illegal, so here we are.
>but anon, how do i ask a girl out?
well we can tailor an approach based on your loks but generally its like this
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What would you do if you saw someone get out of a car and as they adjusted their jacket you saw a pistol holstered behind their back? What if you saw the outline under a shirt at a store or restaurant?
well I carry so if he didn't see that I saw I would ignore it, if he noticed I noticed I'd strike up a conversation about what he carries.
>>16849086
>at a store
gtfo the store because shit's gonna go down
But if this was just someone on the street, I wouldn't be that worried. I live in a terrible part of LA though, and my family is from bumfuck nowhere northern California, so...
Ignore it. Unless they look like someone up to no good then I'll just casually make sure to not be around. Yes that's profiling and stereotyping.
We just passed open carry this year in Texas and I finally saw someone open carrying the other day while I was picking up a pizza. Didn't really bother me. It's funny people made a fuss about it when like a dozen other states have had it for awhile now. If shit went down he'd be getting shot in the back of the head first anyway.
my gf and i have been together for nearly two years and she is willing to dump me if i lose my job.
how red is the flag? can it be dealt with?
i wont lose my job due to incompetence. i was a substitute for an injured guy but right when that happened the company (a small but stable security company) lost a decent chunk of employees so i am probably a long term replacement.
i make just less than her a month 930-950 vs 1000-1200 and my job is hourly and hers is commission
>>16849000
nice trips haha..
more info:
she said "im afraid ifyou lose your job you wont ever get another one"
this is because it took me six or seven months to get a job so i dont think its that unreasonable but in my defence i was dealing with depression and really was struggling to get out of the loop of it
Was she serious? How did she phrase that?
First of all, holy shit I make more than you two combined what the actual fuck (unless you meant weekly?! Each paycheck?)
Second... Huuuuuge red flag. Like... Are you not gonna get another job if you lose yours? Either way... Dude she's overreacting. On the other hand, she kinda went into the relationship with the expectation you'd have a job. Still, it's a really shitty reason to break up, you know?
I'd talk with her and figure it out. Communication is huge.
If you don't live together... She's scoped out some new dick and...
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Did you guys chase money before chasing women ?
Have you gotten better results with women for chasing money first ?
I don't chase money or women. I get by doing my own thing.
>>16848915
I was lucky enough to find a high quality woman in college, and I guess was lucky enough to have the maturity to recognize a high quality woman. We got married the day after commencement.
Where most fagboats fail is that they chase the painted whores that remind them of women in movies and porn, women that have no aspirations in life and just spend all their time trying to look pretty and finding someone to take care of them.
If you marry some woman who never went to college and doesn't have...
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>>16848928
But what if you find a girl who's educated and stable but also good looking? Or are you implying that the girl you wify'ed up is unattractive to you?
I'm in my junior year of college. Currently a computer science major and hate it! I decided my major late so as a computer science major i have about 2-3 years left. I'm considering dropping my major, finishing my liberal arts (5 classes left for me), getting my associates degree, graduating next year and moving on out of college. What do you guys think? Is it a good idea?
>>16848854
Hating on what you're studying doesn't do you any good, you'll start getting annoyed about the classes and ending up with a bad grade, set aside hating your job later on. My 2 cent would be to proceed with the latter choice.
Don't let time discourage you - liberal arts degrees are one of the most common degrees they hand out just to make sure you leave college with a degree. It's barely better than nothing.
Computer science is for the most part where the jobs and future is heading. So even if it takes longer you're going to be going into a steady, reliable, better paying job.
Realizing liberal arts or whatever is a bad choice is a mature decision, even if it takes you longer.
In my introduction to programming class there is a girl with a bachelor in psychology...
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>>16849960
I'd recommend IT or business.
Might have fucked this up badly by being impatient / beta fuck.
Been chatting with a cute 8/10 girl (10/10 for me especially her personality is the best out of any girl I had chatted/interacted with before) since New Years party so it's been 2 months, she's from my school ( senior year ) we've been to some parties here and there, spent some time, had fun etc..
Once I joked about friendzone and shit and she literally told me that I am not in one, because if I was she would be interacting with me differently and she knows I like her + told me she likes...
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>>16848669
>8/10
Bullshit.
>>16848689
will post proof if I lose hope completely, can't fuck this up now and then see her in a restaurant with Chad. If she wasn't good looking I wouldn't be asking for advice here.
>>16848707
Sure you would. Plenty of people post average to ugly chicks and claim they're 8s or 9s. 4chan is notorious for overrating women.
in a long distance relationship, ended up snap chatting some rando I have no connection to at all, really not even to do anything or interested in anything, i just wanted to feel good about my body since SO has been busy and sex is difficult. Stopped immediately and deleted all my shit out of disgust. I would say I treat my SO well but I feel so so guilty, have had trouble eating and trouble sleeping.
I think a lot of the reason why it happened was that it creeped on me slowly and have had deep rooted self esteem issues. Kinda trying to take this as a learning experience...
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>>16848607
Same thing happened to me last week anon. Just do what i did and leave that all behind. Treat her/him like royalty ans everything will be fine
>>16848607
just tell him you dumb attention whore.
>>16848613
>>16848617
How do you leave it behind? I've treated them like royalty desu and I'm not saying this to rationalize myself.
At 25+, what are some things I can no longer do/experience?
sex with 16 year olds.
The play place at McDonalds.
Go into a Chuck E. Cheese's without any kids.
I'm not an audiophile, but I love high quality audio devices, setups, and sounds.
I got some money for the first time to buy something decent, but I cannot decide what to get, here is the dilemma
>Audioengine A5+
vs
>JBL LSR305
which one should I get?
also should I get a d/a for it as well? are there trusted budget dac units for this budget?
I got the audioengine speakers for my sound engineer husband. They're very effective for when he is working due to their flat response, the sound is very accurate, but for things other than working with sound, it is a little lackluster. You need to use an equalizer to give movies and games the same punch they normally have.
The quality of the speakers themselves is nice, no need for a subwoofer, but they're also really big and have trouble fitting on a standard-sized disk with a decently-sized monitor.
>>16848234
>>16848257
I have the A5, they're great speakers, not too analytical. If you want a more analytical signature, then you want monitors. The A5 is good for consumer use, but people say they're overpriced. Are you using these for recording or listening to music, watching movies, and gaming?
>>16848919
I'd use them only for music, gaming and movies.
Like what programs do I use and what not
>>16847085
I have a Bachelor of Science in this field. Start volunteering or interning, even if there's no pay right now. Networking is the key in this field and will help you in the long run. I'm not a huge Mac person, but you will need a Macbook Pro because a really good film editing program to use, which is also used in the industry today is Final Cut Pro. Are you still on college or about to start college?
High school
>>16847155
I would suggest you go to Towson Unversity. That's where I graduated from. It's in Baltimore. It's a has a strong media department and a lot the professors work on film sets or have had jobs in the industry. But that's just one suggestion if you're thinking of staying local. Look up schools in LA or New York. You might be interested in that as well. Networking, like I already mentioned is the key to getting a job in film editing. It's about connections. Also, do freelancing on the side....
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How long can a girl go without showering before it gets nasty down there?
>>16872570
If she remains still most of the day, a day.
If she moves around a lot, it can be earlier. (Please shower after exercise)
Shower twice a day (Morning, evening) and you're fine.
>>16872570
bruh, shit gets musky and sweaty down there in a day.
take a fucking shower.
I did things I am not proud of. Things I couldn't imagine I would do when I was younger. I despise myself for them. I promise, I will try to get better.
I legitimately hate women.
Not out of "lel teh virgin rage", since I'm a faggot anyway, but because I've never not experienced them ruining something beyond repair while hiding utterly ghastly personalities underneath fake smiles.
>>16865712
Sorry your mother was a cunt, homosexual. Not all women are cunts like her.
>>16865661
Every day I dream of visiting a whore to lose my virginity. I waste thousands of dollars a year on strippers because they are the only attractive women who validate my existence and treat me like I'm mildly attractive. I have an addiction.
Dear O,
I did a lot of things for you in the past. I know you'll never love me back but I will always be here for you, a loyal friend to the end
But then that psycho bitch who threatened to kill you in the past shows up now to ask forgiveness and befriend you again. You act interested and even hinted at wanting an NSA relationship with her. I defended you from her, I asked her then to cut out her jealousy-inspired shit and leave you alone. I went to the police to support you, I feared for your life, and now this? I don't understand, it hurts so bad, my...
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J,
You are the light of my life. The sky is a little bluer with you around, the grass a bit greener. Us finding each other was a pivotal moment for us both, and I hope we cherish it and each other for a long time. You are who you are and I am who I am, and that's what makes us just right. I know a lot of the time you feel as though you are at fault in some way, but I can never think of an idiosyncrasy or habit of yours that isn't endearing.
Aap meree heh.
Meh apka who.
M.
>>16857049
Dear X
I heard you when you were sad when you discovered that our coworkers were talking behind your back and you said that you dont understand since you never talked behind theirs
Well guess what, you do! You even did it to me. I know that you told the guy I like that I treat YOU like a competitor (I dont wtf) because I act all sad and lonely when you guys are always together (I am but for different reasons, I just thought I could be on my real emo self when I'm around you because I trusted that...
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I miss you man. I don't wanna bother you too much so I'm trying to avoid sending messages but you're on my mind, I care a lot and I'm here for you, really. No matter what you're going through or what you need. Anyway no rush, just don't forget about me, I'll be around, & I hope to hear from you soon <3
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Is it gay to ask your male friend to hang out with you just 1 on 1? I just don't want to lose my friends from us drifting away.
Girls and guys,
How do my boyfriend and I get better at dirty talk? Ideally, I want to learn some tips and tricks I can tell my boyfriend to try and encourage him to talk dirty more often, but I'm always up for learning a thing or two
Girls.
Let's say a guy voiced interest in you and asked once and politely to have your number. And you gave it to him. No pressure, he wasn't being pushy or anything and you certainly didn't have to.
Did you ever give your number to someone like that without actually wanting to see him again?
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Girls
How can I approach a girl in my class the best way?
I surprised the last girl I talked to and it went really badly
>>16865165
Try not doing it the way you did it with the last girl
>>16865165
dont be an autist