still in need of help....
I just realized I don't get girls because I'm not even trying.
Advices on how to get started on the flirting/getting laid stuff?
I think I have gone off the deep end. I actually considered following a woman I don't know today off the bus. I want to say something to get so bad but nothing makes sense! She has fucking ear phones in all the time too making it impossible start conversation.
I need help. I guess a part of me just wants more opportunity to talk to them. I just hate how unapproachable women are.
Like how do they expect men to ever talk to them if they wear ear phones all the time?!
I think she's probably wearing earphones /because/ she doesn't want anyone to talk to her, bro.
Do not - repeat - DO NOT follow her off the bus just to try and talk to her, there's like a 99.9% chance you'll scare the shit out of her instead of making acquaintances.
Give up on this one, consider putting yourself in more situations where girls are more likely to want to talk to you, like in a social circle or join a club or something.
I just feel like I am never given opportunities to meet women properly and have to resort to doing odd shit like taking a mitten unnoticed abd then giving it back next day saying that I saw her drop it.
I don't want to do shit like this.
Hooooly shit, dude, cool your jets. That really is getting into creeper territory.
Like I said, rethink your entire strategy. Do something extra-curricular for yourself, like a book club or and evening class or something, and talk to girls there like you would any other person.
Don't steal their shit. Don't try to force conversations if they don't want to talk. That kind of stuff spreads as rumour and you'll get a seriously bad rep about the place.
I'm currently unemployed, been like this for a long while now. The girl I like knows this. Can I still ask her out or should I get a job first?
And are the words I use and the whole situation when and where I'm asking her out important to define whether she'll say yes or no?
Is going for coffee a good first date thing? And how long should it be between when I ask her and the day of the date?
I've known the girl for a year now, we are basically friends but not too close or anything. Is it okay to ask her out or should have there been some more noticeable...
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You could ask her out anyways but your chances would be a lot better if you got a job first. Though if you have to ask if you should have noticed chemistry after a year I think your chances are quite low anyhow. Ask her to something casual and try and get some chemistry off of hanging out
>keep merging two people I know in to the same person in my head when I think about them
>have dreams about someone I know split in to several people
Do any of you know what this is? Its starting to freak me out a little
Where is a good place I can fight
In an open field with the guy's back to you and a high powered rifle, unless you're from Europaistan.
Why do you want to fight?
Sleep schedule's getting real fucked. Usually sleep from 6am - 3pm, want to get it to 11pm - 8am. Went to sleep last night at 9pm in an attempt to correct it, but woke up at 1am and am still awake now at 8am. Should I just stay awake for the rest of the day to try to correct it?
Would it be autistic / weird if I walked up a flight of stairs and said "Love you" to the girl I like who occasionally stands there to let me pass and then apologize and say "I mean thank you!" in an anxious tone of voice?
I really like this girl but it's beyond the point where smalltalk is a viable option. I am either going to do this or just ask her out.
>in serious relationship
>plans to go on holiday together, find job after graduating nearer to her
>both apparently feeling like we are soulmates
>obviously have marriage/kids on my mind
>suddenly becomes very unresponsive to texts/calls
>making excuses like 'sorry I was just so busy' and 'need some "me" time'
>really uncharacteristic behaviour as we normally text/call everyday
>this goes on for a week
>finally just ask if there's something wrong between us
>she breaks up
>her excuse is 'commitment issues' and 'not wanting to drag me down' even though if anything having a her as my gf made me happier than ever and more hard working
>by commitment issues I'm guessing she is/was fucking some other guy right now
>immediately block her on all social media/cut all contact/remove any potential sign of her, can't deal with this shit
>spent the last 36 hours in bed sipping water crying and screaming
>literally don't know what to do with my life anymore, all my post grad plans were based on her
>realise I am lonely as fuck as my phone has been completely empty and unused
>realise if I treated her like shit and kept her on her toes instead of being comfortable and enjoying I'd still have her because she is a fucking idiot whore like the rest of them
Seriously I don't have a reason to live.
This is why mentally unstable people shouldn't be in relationships. That's what happens when you don't live your life for yourself, and base your entire happiness on something else that could end at anytime.
You'll get over it.
I used a knife to open and then pop a blackhead on my cheek. Did I fuck up? Will there be any long term damage?
it might scar up but nothing terrible will happen. just make sure to use an antibiotic ointment in case it gets red to prevent infection. next time, use something called a blackhead extractor or a fine tip needle. a knife is too large for something like that and using it could seriously fuck your skin up. i don't have any links but looking up blackhead extractor on amazon brings up a ton of results.
I'm a girl and I'm looking to improve/make my voice more feminine. I've tried looking into voice training but the majority of the resources I found was for mtf trans and most of it was about adams apples. Any tips or any advice?
is police and chihuahua the answer to every problem?
Hey, /adv/, I think the subject says it all. Any advice on how to convince my mum to let me dye my hair pink? Pic related, it's a pic of me.
Oh, you are a rebel. Rebels don't ask momies to permissions. Just go and paint yoir hair to PINK. It isn't tatoo, so it isn't permanent or expensive.
You can go to salon or buy spray or colors for hair at shop. Just read instructions or it will burn a lot.
So I'm turning 25 soon and I honestly feel like I've accomplished next to nothing and have nowhere near pushed myself to my full mental or physical potential. Feels pretty bad, man. Anybody else in this position or been in this position before? How do/did you cope with it?
I'm doing the Netflix thing with my crush on Saturday, which is all fine and dandy, but I have no moves. None.
Any pointers/tips? My virginity is in your hands, /adv/.
>Guide me pls
Order a pizza for your Netflix binge. Keep the box on your lap with a hole cut in the bottom and your dick poking through the hole. When she goes for a slice she will open the box and see you cock. Proceed to have sex.