I've been with the same girl since highschool, never loved or had sex with anyone else. However, the wonder of what another persons sex feels like somehow creeps into my mind sometimes. I never want to hurt her or lose her, but don't know what to do about these feelings or if I should just ignpre them. Any advice, opinions, or perspectives are welcome.
i think that's a fairly normal though/impulse/whatever for people that have been in relationships for a long time. maybe i'm wrong, but i've had feelings like this when i was dating someone and i know other people that have too. i think what's most important is that you recognize it's just another intrusive thought/feeling... and nothing more. what makes you human is that you have the ability to process it and reject it as something you'd rather not do. i think you're already on the right track, since you realize acting on them would hurt your...
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>>16851226
How often family? Are you pining for new puss like every day? That's not helpful.
If it's rare then who cares. You aren't going to act on it and it doesn't matter.
You likely settled into long term too early, nbd. Stay committed and just keep dismissing the thought and it should eventually go away.
>>16851242
Shit... Thanks a lot. This is my first time on /adv/ and I didn't know it'd be so helpful. Guess I'm just used to the other boards. Thank you though, this was genuinely helpful.
I woke up today with a weird bump on penis. Can oil based lubes such as coconut oil produce acne on your genitals?
They can clog pores, yeah.
if you used that, then yes, it's extremely likely that a pore/hair follicle got clogged with the oil and your skin is just reacting to it. despite what people say, don't use coconut oil as a moisturizer/lube/whatever on the skin. it's non-comedogenic and can fuck up your skin. and stop using oil-based lubes. they break down condoms and can cause skin problems (stick to water or silicon).
>>16851250
This - it is likely folliculitis.
Hit the store and buy some anti-bacterial soap like Dial and start using it to wash your groin when you're bathing... do this now if possible. If you let it "fester" then it will spread rapidly and a lay person looking at your dick will think you have herpes.
If you have insurance you should see your doctor asap and get some anti-bacterial cream. If it is severe enough they will give you an antibiotic.
Help me /adv/.
I'm working with a group to film a movie for a class. We all met at my apartment today and did a few scenes before they left. I just got a text from one of the girl's saying that I was handsome.
Please help me. I'm not looking to date right now and I want to know how to respond nicely. She has a child already and I honestly don't feel ready, for a girlfriend or a kid to worry about. Please help.
Just say thanks.
>>16851180
I would, but I feel like that would be somewhat rude not calling her pretty after complimenting me.
Need Advice: basically i'm in last year of school i'm not too keen with talking with new people but here is this one girl sat across from me who is absolutely beautiful she's in my year but i've never spoken to her before. Pretty much I need a reason to talk to her, because it will seem odd if i just show up and start talking to her
>>16851144
First things first: You're never going to fuck that girl. EVER. Get that into your skull now.
What you can do is start to develop the skills that will let you fuck other girls down the line.
Embrace the fact that you'll never fuck her and just don't care about what goes down.
>it will seem odd if I just show up and start talking to her
No it won't. Own it. Just start talking to her. Engage her. Ask questions. Try to learn what she's...
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>>16851171
I don't want to "fuck" her she's smart and shy and she stares at me and sometimes our eyes meet
>>16851194
Then just talk to her about something you like. Channel your inner Trump.
>op asks /adv/ what to do or what X means
>shoots down or ignores every objective reply until they get exactly the answer they were looking for
every fucking time
inb4 you just give shitty advice u buttmad etc. Regardless of whether my advice is sagelike or shit, this pattern is undeniable.
>>16851126
>shoots down or ignores every objective reply until they get exactly the answer they were looking for
Yep. That's what most people are like. Welcome to humanity.
>>16851148
Nah. IRL there's a good 50% chance they're actually going to consider the input they requested. Here its literally 5%.
>Hey, I hope you're having a lovely night
What did she mean by this
Way to give all the information. Thanks for this non-garbage post.
>I hope you're having a lovely night
I'm not sure anon. Scholars have debated what this means since Socrates. It's a very complex sentence, it has varying amounts of words in different languages yet the occasions where a woman is prompted to say this seems to have some correlation with the time of day and her intentions towards the receiver of this message. Some morons would suggest the simplest solutions is likely the best. They suggest that she's trying to confer that she hopes you're having a lovely night. But this...
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She wants you to be happy. There's no way to discern if she wants your dick from just this sentence, OP.
So, I have a friend who ended up fucking me over, stole my rent money, car battery, jacked my stereo, firearm and then took off.
Now, I'm not saying he didn't get his, I'd say we broke fairly even after it was all said and done, with me wanting a little more, but never pursuing it as far as I could've.
Well, he was under the influence of a meth whore, and he's always struggled with drugs, but I've tried to always be a positive influence.
He came by and apologized, and wanted to be friends again, but I wasn't ready to accept...
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If he did it the first time; I think you can put some walls inbetween you and him and be done with it. Like take precautions about your own properties, like insurances or alarm systems and not letting him in your house for long.
Years ago, when I was 19 I think, I was out drinking with friends of mine, and we all got really drunk. We went back to their house and all went to sleep. It was me in a room with two girls, me sleeping on a mattress, but I ended up in the bed of one of the girls after a while. We were good friends, and me being really drunk and horny, I wanted to have sex with her. I made some moves but she (in a very friendly way) declined. Still yet we both ended up on my mattress later, and I grinded with my dick on her ass, with no penetration though. She never tried to stop me or to say...
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>>16851083
No. You had a boner from being in a bed with a girl it was slightly violating though
If you tried reaching down her pants or taking her pants off or something it would be I think you're fine man I get boners all the time just laying down and pushing it against her ass would of been crazy tempting
If she were upset she'd have jumped out of bed. Bet she got wet but had her reasons not to have sex, like proper education.
I have a problem /adv/.
I can't read anymore. When I sit down to read a book I can't get more than two pages before I start falling asleep.
Please help guys, I don't want to be an illiterate nigger the rest of my life.
>>16851081
bump for interest
Read something you know you will like. For me I just love gothic horror etc. Conan the barbarian is also a great read.
>>16851081
people tend to grow out of reading at a certain point if they read too much.
the author V.C. Andrews used to go on about how once you read too much, you never want to read again, and all thats left is to write.
so maybe start writing. you wont be an illiterate becuase you will constantly find yourself reading up on certain subjects to make your work more believable and educate.
My girlfriend keeps all her exs on Facebook and casually comments on their shit. We live in a small town and keep thinking how they saw her naked and fucked her. She's also the dirtiest girl I've ever met and I keep thinking about her doing the filthiest shit and it's fucking with me so bad I just want to dump her but I like her a lot. Well I thought I did now I'm doubting if I can even get an erection I'm so disgusted by it.
Wtf do I do
Break up with her or stop being a jealous little bitch
>>16851078
/thread
Should I at least ask her if she's done all this dirty shit with her exs? Not lnowing is killing me but I'm scared shitless about looking insecure and always being jealous and starting drama but it's messing with me so much I feel physically ill and I have nightmares
Is there a real advice place on the web? /adv/ is all teenagers preening about their so
>>16851071
No, decent people have actual people in their real lives who they can go to for advice.
Non-fat lesbians, anywhere really. Legitimately afraid of my dating opportunities when I start college in the fall. For guys you have lots of options and places to search- I'm not sure.
I'm fit and tall, face is okay but I'm told I have pretty eyes. And no I'm not going to post a picture of myself on 4chins, but is being fit (and somewhat tall) really desirable traits in the les community?
>>16851040
>For guys you have lots of options and places to search
I didn't know all lesbians were so funny.
>>16851040
Depends on where you go to college.
In a place like Austin, you would find plenty.
>>16851046
compared to lesbians, uh, yeah, we do
Hey /adv/. So a girl from my class, who I think is pretty cute, sent me this. We're pretty close and I told her I had feelings for her a long time ago. I still like her.
The only thing is that she has a boyfriend. He seems pretty beta and insecure
I would love to steal her if that's possible.
How should I proceed from here?
Be alpha and ignore it.
Bumping for a serious reply
>>16851035
Slut-tier
So like a month ago I switched up the bus routes I took to get into work since I got a bike. Lately I've noticed this one girl has been sitting across or in front of me, even though the bus is usually pretty empty. Lately I've noticed that she's been shyly eyeing me when she thinks I'm not paying attention, I'm usually on my vita to pass the time.
I figure that next time I notice her looking at me I should make eye contact and smile. If she returns the smile and removes her headphones, I assume I've been given the all clear to start talking...
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>>16851016
>I'm usually on my vita to pass the time.
>>16851016
Sounds good OP.
But you already knew that. You're just trying to make us all jealous with your eyecontact.
You know what? Fuck you OP. I don't need your filthy eyecontact slut to be happy. She makes eye contact with DOZENS of guys EVERY. FUCKING. DAY.
She's clearly a millenial slut that just want eye cock rammed down her cornea all day. You deserve each other you fucking pussy.
>>16851155
Well Olmec isn't going to kill itself.
>>16851188
And here I thought she only had eyes for me :(
Not trying to brag, I promise, just wanted to pass it by someone else so I don't make an ass of myself. I'm pretty bad at the whole flirting thing.
So I'm at university. Last semester I took a folding chair from the campus. Today a University Police officer was at my door with my roommates keys.
He noticed the chair and claimed it was the same as the universities. He asked to look at it and asked where i got it. I said "Someone gave it to me on a late night." He finished looking at it and said there wasn't any markings to signify it's the universities, but that I should find that person and ask where they got it from. Then make sure it goes where it needs to if it is campus property.
I'm...
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>>16851015
if ur at all concerned enough to make a post about it on 4chan, just give it back and say 'hey this had been laying out right outside the dorms for like two weeks, so i brought it in. but i guess its the universities? so here you go...
then go to as tore and by your own
Yo, I work at a university doing event setups and you little fucks are always stealing my chairs and tables. Imma find you, kid.
>>16851020
I wanna keep it though. Am I in potential trouble?
Or could I just go home with it and be good.