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I'm a girl. I like men and have a soft spot for them. It's hard to explain. I will always care about young boys compared to young girls. Men are way better than girls. All my friends are boys. I just have a fondness for masculinity
Can someone explain?
In the past few months I've started hanging out with these guys that I really don't like that much. But childish, boring, irritating friends are better than no friends at all which is what I had for literally years.
And I was thinking about the most common thing I see on here which is telling both sexes to just lower their expectations. And really they're right. If the girls on here just hit up short fat NEETs and the guys just hit up fat drug taking moms by tomorrow there would be no single people on /adv/.
So why don't people do this? What...
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I've never lowered my standards, not because I feel like I'm better than anyone else but because I'd rather have the right people in my life over just people so I'm not lonely.
Maybe that's just me, I'm not shitting over you lowering your standards are anything, just saying what I think
>So why don't people do this?
Because then instead of being full of "why am I single?" threads, /adv/ would be full of "why does my relationship suck and why am I miserable?" threads.
I've been texting a guy in another state for 4 months now. Only for the past 2 weeks, his replies have been less frequent and the time span is a lot longer between texts. For example, last night he didn't replied me (6pm) and right now he hasn't replied me for 2 hours.He has no plan today either.
Should I ask him if he is talking to another girl?
But if he told me the truth, he is not doing anything besides watching TV.
You are probably right though.
idk, I just feel fed up with this as it seems like it won't lead to anything. 4 months and we r still just texting. He doesn't seem like he is planning to visit me anytime soon. But I feel guilty to talk to another guy even though we are nothing.
You see that is a problem
Why should he come and visit you while you do nothing
You're the type that only wants to wait for others to put all the pieces together for you
He could have a problem or just wants some time alone
Hey /adv/, I've been growing a beard for a few months and will be growing it for another 5 at the very minimum.
Do you have any advice on keeping this shit looking good or how to make it look good if you're of the opinion that it currently looks shit?
Length has to be kept, though.
Does anyone want to talk right now? I feel very stressed
I asked my husband to get a job yesterday night before we go to bed.
>we're a young couple (19yo and 20yo)
>he's been in school since September
>financial aid dropped him in January
>he planned to get a job but he's been unemployed ever since
>he had binge on job applications some day
>some day just play League from morning to tonight
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>getting married younger than 21
>getting married without any financial planning
>getting married at all
I've been drinking 4-5 monsters a week for the past month now and my girlfriend is getting all upset about it saying that it's gonna cause me all sorts of health problems. I disagreed, are energy drinks really "that" bad for you?
How can I get a bf? I've heard that as a femanon it should be easy as I'm not fat but I still don't have one, I'm also not picky, but don't approach people due to shyness, how can I fix this?
Maybe shy wasn't the right word.. I can talk to people well if they approach me because I know they want to talk to me, but I can't approach people because I'm afraid they won't want to talk to me.
I'm fine with calling that shyness. Resolve it. Feel the feeling and then act anyway. Yes, they might not want to talk to you. It makes no difference in the big picture. You just continue on until you find someone else you want to approach.
Im at the beach righr now. A few moments ago, I almost died drowned. A fucking wave took me in and I coukdnt escape, I swallowed a shitload of water and thought I was totally dying, finally.
By a miracle the sea chose to bring me back, and Im right here, typing this. Feeling alive.
I have been given a second chance. I dont know how I should thank the universe for it.
I honestly dont know what to do with my life now. Any anons here also had a NDE?
/adv/, define dateable female personality, please.
Most girls with boyfriend(s) I see around the campus are normal: whine and appear weak only to manipulate guys to do favours for them. It is the most appropriate female action, it seems.
I hate behaving in this manner, does that mean guys won't look at me?
Tried to act as I'm supposed to with a guy I really liked, and only felt miserable.
You're buying into the women hate on 4chan, just act like yourself, there's literally a man for every women (some say there are more women, but it can't be by much.) The problem here is the m/f ratio on a college/uni campus, more men will drop out when compared to women so there are more women on campus and the men can afford to be more picky.
These threads never work, but whatever. The idea here is that all the fags trying to not be lazy anymore, e.g.:
Do stuff together and update each other on their progress every 30 mins to an hour. So basically, come into this thread and say "I am going to do x for three hours." Then update us on whether or not you are actually sticking to it.
Not a usually lazy person, but I really don't want to start on my senior thesis. Been putting it off for two months. It's due in a month. Have 16 pages to go. I've got my outline, and I'm going to start on some of the paragraphs I care most about. Will keep going until I run out of good ideas. See you later, bros!
Hown do I stop crying from every argument l have with my wife? I am 23 and whenever we have a heated argument with her or with whoever I start to tear up. Why is this?
I'm a male. I am sensitive but it sucks crying so much in front of my wife. I feel emancipated and I feel like it shows weakness
I need some help:
I am new to skateboarding and I have had my board for about 3 weeks. When I push it, it turns to the right. I am not sure how to fix this issue. I tried to fix the trucks, but it still goes to the right. Please help
What? Does it happen when you aren't on it? Like, if you just kick it down the street?
You are probably putting your weight on one side too much because you are a noob.
That would be my first guess. As far as "fixing it" - I have no idea, I don't even remember what the underside of my skateboard looks like.
When I push it when I am not on it, it goes to the right. I tested it in a tennis court.
I am 22 and you are never to old to skate. I am enjoying it a lot. You need to stay motivated tho as it can be frustrating.
Hey, /adv/, how do you guys confess to a girl you like? Do you guys just plain ask her out on a date or do you guys straight up tell her how you feel?
What do you suggest then? I want to tell the girl I like how I truly feel but I don't really know how to do it. We're planning on going out to eat next weekend and I was planning on telling her there.
No dude, you let the momentum and the sexual tension build on the dates and keep talking to her to keep her interested before and after.
You're basically like trying to turn on your water faucet without any pressure in the pipes so the whole thing just doesn't work.