Hey guys usually I take to long to cum or don't cum in sex. However last night I met with a girl and only lasted 5 minutes she wasn't even that attractive but I was still attracted to her.
How do I last longer when I feel like I'm about to cum. I've actually taken longer with a 7/10 Asian Hooker.
What techniques do you guys use?
>>16913104
Pull out.
A lot of people are going to tell you shit like "Think of baseball or the Queen".
The answer is if you're about to cum, change positions, eat her out for a bit, or find something else to do until you cool off.
>>16913114
>The answer is if you're about to cum, change positions, eat her out for a bit, or find something else to do until you cool off.
This! If you're about to cum and want to last for longer, stop! What I did was to ask her for some seconds, take a breath, and then focus on her until I was ready to keep going.
So I'm seeing this virgin girl, and our slow step into a sexual relationship has been disastrous. She doesn't want to have sex yet which I respect because she wants to wait until we're in a stable relationship (currently we're temporarily long distance until 2 months), so we just fool around a bit
But she is very frigid, i'll start slowly with foreplay and she'll get wet, but then will pull my hand away at some point as I start to finger her and I'm back to square one. Then i'll give it several minutes and she'll let me touch her again, then the same thing will happen. She'll then end up putting her top back on and even wears pyjamas in bed
Some times she's got very horny (more when she's drunk) and has let go to any resistance temporarily but then she'll suddenly close up again and pull my hands away
It's fucking frustrating and feels like we're taking one step forward then 2 steps backward, it's got to the point where I quiz her about it and she just jokes about it
I never push her into doing anything she doesn't want to, and always put her at ease, but it seems so hard to get her into it and she just fights the urge, should I just not initiate anything next time - am i being overly pushy?
>>16913092
Be more dominant about it. If you're getting in the moment and fingering her, just pull down her underwear and start eating her out or fingering her more.
If she says "no" in a very serious matter and is really trying to push you off, stop what you're doing.
If she seems into it, but a little resistant, keep going. She'll probably get into it also.
>>16913092
You're being pushy. Talk to her about it in a non-sexual situation, ask if anything's wrong, or if she doesn't like it. It sounds like she doesn't want to do stuff with you but lets you because she feels pressured and then stops it before it goes too far. Let her take the lead because what you're doing obviously isn't working.
>>16913118
seriously do not do this
send help
>month ago, coworker tells me that other coworker that I rarely ever work with (schedules don't line up) has a crush on me, but apparently she's super shy
>a week ago, ask her out on a date since our schedules finally met up
>go out for drinks, then a day later go out to see a movie
>both times were awesome, had a load of fun and we're both obviously into each other, held hands and chatted about real basic things
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Hang in there OP, she will get better at her English
Watch that series of episodes of Louie where he starts dating a chick from Romania or some shit that can barely speak English.
As long as you have fun doing things, it'll be a good time. Just know communication is crucial so this isn't going anywhere.
>>16913086
>>16913089
I'm more or less afraid that I'll get attached and a year down the road it'll be the same story. everything else about her screams perfect (for me) - submissive, body language, appearance, beliefs.
Expressive communication is just so dang important, idk if it's overlookable.
Is roleplaying in chatrooms wrong? I began to today and i feel like a scumbag...
anyone else do this?
If you have a girlfriend, yes.
It can get addictive too, so I would be careful with that also.
It is kind of a loser thing to do.
>>16913055
Don't do it senpai. Like the previous anon said, it can get addicting. Try to interact with actual people, you'll be happier in the long run.
>>16913080
Emphasis on long run, social interactions are a pain for me, when I can actually get someone to have a conversation face to face.
So here's my situation.
>in college
>way too old for this shit, spent too much time dicking around
>be with gf throughout college
>she finishes years before me
>finds a job in a city thats about an hour drive away from my place
>we see each other on the weekends, if not more often if we choose to
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What's the job and from what country to what country are you going to?
>>16913060
From austria to the UK, job will be working for a planning office.
How to live a cheap life?
>>16913026
How cheap?
Don't get cable tv. Waste of money.
Take into account various aspects of your life that mean the most to you OP. Can you live without eating like a god? Buy mostly vegetables from farmer's markets and eat only meats that you cook. As far as entertainment goes, just buy a Laptop or something and Internet. Watch YouTube as much as possible, or buy Netflix at the absolute most. Mostly importantly OP, take up a cheap hobby. Get into reading or start a series, especially and older one like Dark Tower or something where all of the books are at the library. Spend $100 and learn guitar. Not only with this give you something to do, it will give you something at which to look toward.
So im a marijuana smoker and its legal for anyone over 21 and older to use it in any way. Ive been doing it in a rented room that I pay for through my mom using SSI. With my own money I walk down and buy some and bring it back.
Now for the rented room, i signed documents saying "i wont do drugs in my room" my mom got pissed saying
"You can get kicked out for smoking weed in my room since its a drug and after all we worked for this room I feel safe to risk losing it"
Naturally I agree with her.
But here are my reasons to disagree
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>>16913010
That's easy mode.
Just google some ways to smoke weed with no smell or as little smoke as possible. There's all kinds of ways.
yeah you can get kicked out, although you probably wont, and he probably wouldn't care if you smoked it in the backyard. the main concern with landlords is that there will be a smell in their house, which they do NOT want. it's a risk to smoke in the house, a relatively small one, but id go outside. its not hard
SMOKE WITH YOUR MANAGER
ITT we settle it once and for all:
What is more important in attracting women: looks or charisma/extroversion?
>>16912993
>ITT we disregard personal subjectivity, and paint with the broadest brush possible
>>16913003
>inside the mind of a white knight
>>16912993
Wouldn't it depend on the women you're trying to attract?
Some women are into looks, some are into confidence, some are into charismatic people, some are into out going people. Most women like a mixture of things but it depends on the woman herself, you can't generalise what the whole gender wants
>finish mandatory school
>start a course after that
>fail/quit after three months because I'm sad as fuck
>get ultra lucky and get job
>business fails after three months, neet
>start another course
>fail/quit after three months because I do not like it the least bit
>get lucky again, get job as electronic technician at motorola...
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>come back to shit country because I need to just fucking rest after all the crazy stuff I've gone thru this year (i skipped some stuff bc that was long already, but basically I've moved 7 times in 12 months, that's how crazy it's been)
>rest for a couple months
>send cv's everywhere out of boredom/not really wanting to work here
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Also coldly analyzing my last three years of live I guess all the amount of failure can be pinned down to:
A: Bad luck (first employer's business failing, getting hired for like two weeks in motorola, my company in london thinking I have something to do with a robbery...)
B: And more importantly... A complete lack of any objective in life. Like there is nothing realistic I've wanted to achieve in life, since forever. At least now I know what I want to do very clearly (college) I know what I have to do and how to stay in the path, but still...
Come to the UK it's better standard of living than your country I would assume. Go Edinburgh it's great city
How do people have such great social skills?
When you figure it out, let me know.
>>16912959
By socializing and fixing social mistakes. It's just like developing any other skill.
>>16912959
It just comes naturally to some people I think. I also think it's directly linked to how confident you are
Basically, there is this girl who I don't know personally, and I want to try and get her number, I don't have her for a class, and none of my friends know her, although a few of them say they have her for a class. I also dont have her on any social media, but my friends say she's really shy so I'm not even sure if she'd have one. I'm a senior in high school, and so is she. I had a thread on this earlier but it was too long, it probably 404'd. Thanks guys, any advice would be cool.
>>16912950
Don't try to get her number immediately. Talk to her in person a few times before asking for it.
So I wanted to apply to this plain clothes loss prevention job. Only problem is I'm a 22 year old male that only weighs about 130 pounds. I have recently started going to the gym to try and get bigger. They're hosting open interviews in a few days and I'm afraid that I am going to be looked at and denied because I'm so fucking skinny. Should I still try? Do you guys see a lot of skinny retail security?
Or if you are pretty skinny working a security job how did you get it?
What is the best way(s) a 14 yr old can earn money?
>>16912937
Are you a virgin?
If so, do you want to remain so?
>>16912948
No, and not really
>>16912948
Wait I mean yeah I'm a Virgin
What are these things called? Isn't it a b word like bizare or bazare or something?
>>16912928
braizer
Braizer
Brasier.
Does anyone know what I mean?
Dehydration is much scarier and faster than starvation. Drink your water
>>16912870
Have desire but don't be desperate, I think.
Want things but don't NEED them.
>>16912875
Can I drink diet and captain instead, but still get the benefits of water?