My GF tried sucid I've try to help her and make her smile , didn't work as well and she broke up , is make someone happy is possible yes/no and why ?
>>16918810
It is possible to make someone happy. But if someone has a mental health issue that is a result of a physcial problem(eg: chronic pain) it is not easy to make them happy using the common methods.
It's more like mental problem , some peoples aras her at work
>>16918810
>My GF tried sucid I've try to help her and make her smile , didn't work as well
It's difficult to tie a good knot.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a year.
During the first few months she made herself out to be a very good girl. I questioned it because she had the tell-tale signs of being a slut. She told me about a fuckbuddy, and actually called him a fuckbuddy. She had her nipples pierced, she hung out with gay guys (who I later found out she showed her nipple piercings to). We met from Tinder, and had sex the third time we met - without a condom. I took it very slow and treated her more as someone to have casual sex with than a girlfriend.
As time went on we talked...
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>>16918776
I can't help but feel betrayed and cheated on. I admit I was taking things slow and even when we were first having sex I didn't consider us to be "together", but the fact that she would give herself up so easily to so many people - even knowing that her dad molested her - really bothers me. The fact that she slept with someone after we first met - a date that SHE WANTS TO USE AS OUR ANNIVERSARY - bothers me, and it especially bothers me because her and I had sex later that night right after she...
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>>16918779
She's obviously fucked up from being molested by her father. It's a shitty situation, but it's definitely within your best interests to break up with her.
>>16918789
There's no doubt she was fucked up. She tells me that I have helped her out of a ditch, that I helped her become a good, loving, caring person again; that she no longer feels worthless and accepts her mistakes as being in the past and learned from them. She assures me that she has never cheated on me, and to be honest I believe her. But she did fuck a bunch of people the first time that she ever met them, and also fucked two guys (her fuckbuddy and myself) within 20 hours of each other, and I don't know...
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/adv/, I need help, I've never been in a relationship with someone, but recently I fell in love with someone who rejected me, I've decided to wait and find another girl who I like as much or even more than her and a week ago I texted with this girl, but I stopped after a couple of days because it looked like it wasn't worth it. What should I do? Should I just find someone who is ok with me having sex with her and try to make it work or should I wait until I find someone I really could care for?
Relationshipless anon reporting in. I've hooked up with a few girls, but I've never dated anyone. I would definitely focus on finding someone you like as a person if you're looking for more than just casual sex.
>>16918794
Yeah, that's what I think too. But I must say that I consider myself kinda ugly so I'm afraid that I won't find much others girls.
>>16918775
Unless you're a 29-year-old neckbeard, there's time and hope, so don't feel like you need to hurry, especially if you're at least moderately competent talking to people.
Stop saying you're in love with people who don't want to date you, first of all. Putting someone on a pedestal before you even have their number is, at no point in time, going to help you. You're going to get emotionally involved before they know your name, come off as too desperate and creepy, and set yourself...
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>29
>happily married
>two kids
>good job
>financially stable
The only problem is my friends from high school and college all live in different cities. How do I go about making new good friends at this stage of the game? I'm not really interested in getting closer with my work acquaintances.
>>16918727
the only way to make friends at that age is through hobbies, other friends, or work
since you're married with kids you wont have time for anything but work friends
welcome to adulthood
>>16918727
Neighbors
Kids' friends' parents
Volunteer work
PTA
What kind of movies and music u enjoy
I told my crush to kill herself. What the fuck do I do?
>>16918682
"haha jk"
>>16918682
finish the job
>>16918682
Say "...by choking on my cock."
Then she'll say "I can't choke on that little thing."
You'll both share a laugh and all will be forgotten.
How do Normie's do it?
How do they handle full time work, full time social life and full time love life?
I'm no longer a NEET. work 5 days a week, 3 of those are just 5 hour shifts
cbf doing anything outside of work as I just want to stay at home and some me time on my days off and after work.
try not to make to deep of a connecting with people as I am afraid they will invite me out to stuff. Avoid going out because I sometimes bump into old friends who want to catch up and do stuff with me.
how the fuck can people want to still go...
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Buddhists tell a tale about a man who asked the Buddha how to fit spirituality into his busy life. In response, the Buddha produced a jar full of rice and three large turquoise beads. He asked the man to put the beads into the jar, and the man couldn't do it. The jar was too full, and he could not push the beada down into the rice.
Then the Buddha emptied the jar into a bowl, put the beads in first, and then added the rice. And all of it fit, even though it was the same amount of rice as before. The man was enlightened.
Even to this day, some Buddhists repeat this exercise. They fill a jar all the way to the brim with rice, then empty it, add three large turquoise beads, and put all of the rice back, and everything fits. Having done all this they keep the jar as a reminder.
Life is like this. Our ability to first make time for the things that matter most is limited: after all, there is only so much room in the jar. But even within those constraints, a little organization and prioritization can go a long way. Even all of the rice can still fit in the jar, if only we organize and prioritize properly.
If you want to make a jar like this for yourself, it's not difficult. Any craft store will have a suitable jar and beads, and any grocery store will have dry rice. I recommend buying the rice first, so that you will have a sense of what size jar you need.
>>16918702
That seems physically impossible.
>>16918661
>I just want to stay at home and some me time on my days off and after work
Well what do you tend to do with this "ME TIME" of yours?
Are you just mindlessly spending most of your time on computer (or any other device) browsing the internet, watching videos or playing video games?
Try to cut that stuff from your life for a few days and you'll quickly notice how much free time you actually have and how much time you're actually spending staring the...
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Someday i shall have twins.
I was thinking of naming the boys
Porterhouse and
Portside
What do you think /adv/?
Porter isn't so bad but those names, you have to be trolling.
>>16918563
Do it better knock the bitch out though.
>>16918563
You should he blinded, deafened, and have your bocal cords clipped so you no longer interract with society.
Why do girls only change when you leave?
I was dating this girl for 3 years, I loved her she was just too unmotivated, we'd only ever watch movies and play games towards the end of the relationship, I asked her to change her ways so many times but she didn't and I left.
I seen photos of her recently and she looks really good, like he's been living at the gym or something, she's actually playing at concert halls (he only ever used to play music in his room when no one was home) and apparently she's been doing yoga and shes extremely sexy...
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>>16918477
>like he's been living at the gym
> he only ever used to play music in his room when no one was home)
> called me a shallow pig for messaging him "now that she looks better"
I feel like this was adapted from a male copypasta and OP didn't change all the pronouns
I've been learning Spanish for five months. How's my accent? Can you tell where I am from based on my accent?:
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0rT4sIyX8TE
better in /int
You sound like Peggy Hill
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cmWlZXSH44
>>16918515
>/int
Isn't /int/ for people to troll? I don't want people to tell me to go away because I am a girl.
>You sound like Peggy Hill
I think you are implying that I sound terrible
yeah i could understand it
Ask a daddy putting his 2 month old to sleep at 430 anything
>>16918428
Will you enjoy the next 20 years
Serious question, completely totally and for reals:
How do you sleep at night?
>>16918438
I'm enjoying the first eight,(got an 8year old and a 3 year old)
Alright so I need some /advice on managing two girlfriends
Let's call them Girl A and Girl B,
I live with A, I go to college with B.
>A, loves spending time with me, needs me to cuddle her before she goes to bed, wants me to cook some nights
>Girl B I just got into the relationship with, we chat and flirt but she is casually wanting to spend more and more time together. But I can blow her off and work a schedule more often than A.
I'm looking for tips on maintaining both relationships?
Dude, first of all you're an ass and second of all this shit will be found out soon with a resul of both girls ditching you and leaving you single.
>>16918445
Girl A is generic relationship, I'm 100% emotionally disposable. It's like dating a brick wall.
Fuck your morals.
>>16918455
Then why the fuck are you still with her? Isn't one just enough?
Girlfriend is gaining weight. I can't say I'm thrilled about it, but I don't tell her to start dieting and working out. I actually want her to lose weight, though.
Things I've done:
Suggested we eat healthier and cut out the snacks and juices. Partly worked.
Suggested we go to the gym together. She works from 9 to 8 or so and we live an hour away from work, so we barely have much free time. Two days off a week and she likes to relax when she gets the chance so we've been able to go once a week.
What else can I do here?
By the way, I meant I don't tell her I'm dissatisfied and demand she eats better and works out. I only meant I'm trying to ease into it with suggestions and we can do it together so I'm not calling her out.
>>16918416
I think you're doing well being subtle - it's never a good idea to tell a girl she needs to lose weight.
Maybe next time you two sleep together, let her do most the work? Sex does burn a lot of calories after all.
Do exercise at home. Jog, do aerobics, buy a few weights or even something like a treadmill. Finish off workouts with sex and a shower.
>22
>still living at home after complications
>about to try college for the 4th time
>no idea what I want to study
>shit student in high school
>only had a job for about 6 months
>dont want to be a wage slave
>pretty restless
>I want to travel
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>>16918412
You're a fucking idiot if you don't know what to do.
If you can't do college 3 times just get a job at KFC and be a wage slave.
You will never leave your home country.
Get your shit together and get the fuck off of 4Chan.
or kill yourself
If I knew where you were i'd cut you, bitch
>>16918450
>I got at least that far myself
>it's not like I dropped out, long story short the government cucked me once and my parents each lost their home (divorced) while I was staying for the first semester
>k
>that's the first sensible thing you've shit out
>been down that road too many times, bored of it
>you'd try
>>16918466
>cucked
Yeah, you're destined for failure.
/adv/, Is what I'm feeling normal?
I introduced my boyfriend to my best friend and we all got along well. My best friend told me she approved and my boyfriend said he thought she was pretty, kind and he was happy she accepted him.
But, my best friend is single, much prettier, has a cute personality and is just all around better than me. I love them both dearly and trust them, but I can't help but feel somewhat scared that my boyfriend will start to like my friend and dump me.
Am i just being a horrible person by feeling this way?
>>16918387
Why'd you introduce them if you were going to be this paranoid? And do you not trust either of them?
>>16918391
I didn't think anything until I mentioned it another friend . That friend then called me an idiot, saying I shouldn't have done that since he might like my best friend more.
I trust them both, but what that other friend said made me a little paranoid.
>>16918387
I'm afraid the only solution is for you to have a threesome..
I don't know what to do with my life anymore
>be me
>live with my grandma, my mom and my brother
>my grandma is very, very ill
>has been for the last 6 years
>since my dad and my grandpa died, I've felt lonely as shit
>never had friends
>i sleep all day, stay up all night
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You and your mom needs therapy, you need to get a job. Fix your sleeping schedule and start doing more activities like going for a run or a simple walk. Suicide ain't the answer. Also if you were to an hero, your mom would fall into deeper depression. So dude, get yourself together and fix your life.
>>16918350
that's probably one of the things keeping me alive
if i kill myself, it will bring only more suffering to my family
it's hard being 18 years old, no experience and trying to find a job
but i do try, god knows i do
>>16918365
That's good, keep it up. You're still young, you have your whole life before your eyes. There's lots of people who have been at the edge of life and still brought themselves up at the very top. If they can do that, so can you.