I would like /adv/ on how to buy good candles without spending Yankee candle prices.
Tired of this unscented core shit.
>>16935537
Higher quality candles are going to cost more, but you might have some success looking online. What kind of candles are you looking for, and where have you looked so far?
>not burning incense instead
>>16935537
Make your own. If you buy wax and oils in bulk it's substantially cheaper per unit.
>finally got associate's degree and my foot in the door in a well-acclaimed university
>still not 100% sure on major
>university is also 2 hours from home, don't know anybody up there, and have no idea what the area is like (besides that it's a big college-city)
>family is utterly broke, 0 family support and I just don't have enough to support myself at all ($3.5k in the bank)
>relying completely on loans...
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Bump
tl;dr how to survive at college, living-wise and socially
Don't be a faggot and git gud at a marketable trade.
Work the other way. Instead of choosing a major then trying to figure out what type of job you can get with it, look at the jobs you'd want to do then see what major/degree it requires.
Pic is from the Bureau of Labor Statistics for most new projected jobs.
http://www.bls.gov/ooh/most-new-jobs.htm
Also browse around this site and get a feel for what jobs/fields will be demand and which ones you have interest in.
http://www.bls.gov/bls/occupation.htm
I met her on backpage and she wants a $450 up front "security fee" is this a fair deal?
>>16935524
Ok here is an additional pic of her and I forgot to mention she is asian
>>16935524
Scam find another one. There are way better girls on bp for even half what she is asking.
>>16935538
1. fake money
2. ???
3. do the sex. make big cums
4. ???
5. profit
My girlfriend won't accept my cuckold fetish, I've always had a dark fantasy of my partner getting blacked with me watching. But she's so attached and dedicated to me and refuses to let that happen and she gets angry whenever I mention it during sex. She doesn't know I only dated her cos I could let her get cucked but since she's good in bed I decided to stick around a bit longer and since she's of use and hopefully bring her round. However it seems like a dead end.
I recently contacted this black guy on craigslist and offered him to cuck...
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How about no
>>16935511
>My girlfriend won't accept my cuckold fetish
Well then she can't really be your girlfriend then can she.
>Honey I want a ring
>And babies
>And a house!
>And a husband!
Ok baby, I want you to get fucked by other men!
>UGH WTF IS WRONG WITH U U FUCKING PERV EEEWWWWW
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>>16935513
But Im entitled to my happiness too.
>>16935523
>Well then she can't really be your girlfriend then can she.
As I said she's attached and dedicated to me besides that.
Besides being a tool for sex, she should also respect my sexual fetishes too as I do all I can to satsify her in bed.
It's not rape, I consented to it.
So this girl I’ve been dating for a few weeks plans on coming over tonight and hinted at having sex. I really enjoy her company and I am very attracted to her. Today, as soon as I got home, her ex-boyfriend rolled up in his car and confronted me. He claimed that she gave him herpes. He apparently knew where I lived because he has seen her car outside my house before, so he probably has been following her around which is kind of creepy. He even knew my name and that I was seeing her. He started off by asking me if I was having sex with her and how I met her. I did not disclose...
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Dude, the risk of an awkward moment it's better than herpes for life, trust me, and by any means USE A CONDOM
You should give her ex-boyfriend herpes
>>16935507
you should invest in a weapon of some sort. pepper spray is effective if you prefer not to use a firearm. i would reconsider associating with this girl. condoms are not 100% effective at herpes prevention. her ex is obviously mentally unstable. she throws out the "dont you trust me?" thing as opposed to showing you test results. these are all glaring red flags to me.
My girlfriend can't get over my ex and it's driving me fucking insane. Every time someone's brings my ex up she gets mad at me, or even if she herself brings my ex up she gets mad at me based on my reaction. If I go out of my way to avoid talking about my ex she gets mad, if I talk about my ex nonchalantly she gets mad. If someone brings up my ex's new boyfriend, she gets mad at me. If I refer to my ex's new boyfriend as anything besides ____'s boyfriend she gets mad at me. I don't know how much longer I can put up with this without putting...
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End it all senpai
Bitch is crazy, and you don't have to put up with it. Dump her.
>>16935499
Well when you sit down to talk with her about it, what does she say her problem is?
My middle and pinky toenails on my left foot are an opaque yellow and much thicker than my other toenails like in pic related. My left foot also has white stuff on the bottom on that thick area near the toes and the beginning of the toes that is almost like peeling skin. What non prescription medicine do you recommend I use?
"The symptoms of more severe infections include thickened, discolored toenails that may eventually become painful. In these situations, you should see a podiatrist who can devise a treatment plan."
Go see a doctor
>>16935470
The yellow stuff is probably fungus, but the white stuff could just be calloused skin, I get that often when I run a lot.
>>16935497
But it's only on my left foot. If it was calloused skin, wouldn't it be on both?
How do I deal with the fact that I will never be a world class vocal singer? I got inspired by a band and their songs and I have no musical knowledge and I understand that I will never be famous but I kind of want that. What do I do?
>>16935448
>I have no musical knowledge
Gee it's too bad there's no place you can go to get musical knowledge.
Seriously though, pursue music if it interests you. You might end up famous, although idk why you'd want to because it just seems like a gigantic pain in the ass. And who knows, you may end up becoming one of those people who's only famous regionally. Then you get the pleasure of being recognised by people, but with fewer crazy stalkers and paparazzi.
Even...
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>>16935448
>/m/ (never been idk, I just figure though
>reddit.com/r/piano (sidebar to get started)
>reddit.com/r/guitar (sidebar to get started)
>reddit.com/r/singing (sidebar to get started)
>>16935535
>reddit.com
GET
THE
FUCK
OUT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Only being able to get a date online is affecting my self esteem. I really want someone in real life to want to go on a date with me.
How do I stop feeling so depressed?
>>16935445
>depressed
can we stop using this word for 'oh i feel sad once in awhile?'
please? its fucking retarded.
>I really want someone in real life to want to go on a date with me
its pretty shitty htinking, but at the very least, cut out the online dating. if you dont have apps or online sites, then you will be forced to seek people out in real lief. i recently cut out the apps and a week later met someone awesome. taking...
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>>16935452
I've only started online dating very recently, before that I went years being dateless and boyfriendless.
I think crying and feeling sad every day and not being able to get out of bed counts as being depressed.
How did you meet this person and how did you ask them out?
>>16935454
>went to the no pants train ride (where people ride the metro in their underwear
>see an adorkable brown dude wearing a button up shirt, glasses, tie, and a backpack that buckles in the front
>shirt tucked into underwear
>we keep checking each other out
>end up at the same bar after
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I dislike relationships, for a lot of reasons, but every time I have a fwb or regular casual hookup they develop feelings for me sooner or later. The average lifespan of these things is usually only 3-4 months, which sucks. If I have to hunt for new people all the time I might as well just start one night stands again, but I prefer the comfort of actually ~knowing the person and being able to chill afterwards and such.
How do you extend an fwb relationship beyond that 3 month feelings tipping point?
Fuck men instead.
>>16935439
thats not a thing, im having to deal with fallout from another dude, same shit. though its WAY easy to find a new fuck bud so there is that
>>16935423
pick the lesser of two evils. life isnt made to be easy. pick what oyu hate the least, finding a new fuck bud every 3 months, or start dating
You don't. If you have sex with someone enough, someone is going to develop feelings. It's just a matter of when. This is why prostitution needs to be legalized.
23 years-old virgin and have no friends.
I am a super normal guy. not ugly or not handsome. aaand i have beards.
Living with religious people but i'm an atheist.
my sociality extremely bad. can't stand people.
İ just want to hear "this is normal dude." things.
so ? is this normal ?
unless a hot chick decides to kick in my door and let me fuck her I'll be a 23yo virgin in 2 hours, too
I'm with you, OP
>>16935409
guess the statement that you have no friends is more of concern than that other Detail!
23 kv here
it's whatever I guess
So I just came back from an escort and after trying to get me hard by blowing me (3 attempts) she gave up and I left. Ask me anything.....
How much did you pay. Why did you go to an escort?
plzgive tips on how to hire one/get in contact with them.
Paid $120 for half an hour. I havent gotten laid since 2011. Wanted to break the streak. LOL. I still can't believe I couldnt get hard
I've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly a year, and originally our sex was amazing. I would last 10-20 minutes, cum and 30 seconds later be able to repeat and last even longer. My problem is now whenever we start to initiate anything I'm hard instantly and within acouple seconds of having sex I cum. My confidence has started to take a real hit and although my girlfriend has been patient with it I can tell it's frustrating her too. Any anons have similar issues or know how to deal with it?
happened to me too. take more time to get her/yourself in the mood and slow down a bit
Have you been seeing her less often than in the beginning?
Put all your energy into foreplay and round 2 of penetration
There's no reason to stop fooling around just because you came a single time
How do men grow their hair so long?
Whenever I let my hair grow it bunches up into a big bowl. Hair also gets in my eyes and I can't seem to cut it in a way to get the hair out of my eyes and not look even more ridiculous and like a bowl.
Also it plateaus around neck height. It never grows down to my shoulders...
I want hair like pic
>>16935344
>Whenever I let my hair grow it bunches up into a big bowl
What the fuck
Have you tried combing it?
>>16935344
You cut it as it grows You condition and blowdry. Go to a salon not supercuts.
I've grown my hair past my shoulders before -- more than once, actually. I look terrible that way though, so I don't do it on purpose anymore. (I used to be kind of a metalhead.).
>>16935354 is right, fucking brush or comb your hair brah.
Lol installed a second hardrive and my pc is not turning on.
>tfw 1550$ spent on it
Any ideas ?
Have you tried removing it?
>>16935335
Does the system still POST? Are there any error messages?
>>16935339
It literally didn't turn on