My sister is a woman-child, but how can I help her before she crashes and burns?
>she's 24
>she has a decent job (gets paid like 1600 per month)
>spends all her money on boy band stuff
>grandparents gave her an extra car
>she destroyed it by never checking the oil and maintaining it so it broke down
>she used to live with my mom, but she'd never clean the house, literal roaches,...
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Your mom's gonna have to put her out, and you all have to let her hit hardships. She's 24, she can be a grownup.
>>16985340
Yea, my mom already broke this news to her. But my sister seems to be deluding herself from the issue and ignoring the fact that anything is wrong.
My dad is attempting to offer help as well. But my sister hasn't talked to him in 9 years, also from another stubborn tantrum she had with him as a teen. Like, she's digging the hole further and it's just annoying and also saddening to see.
>>16985325
There's no way for you to make her see unless she wants to see. Only solution is for your mom to be adamant, and if she doesn't pay then she gets kicked out. Same with the car, only solution is for her to not be given another car. you can offer to buy the car off her for a fair price and fix it for yourself though, giving her a little extra cash to buy a shitter car for herself.
Would it be autistic to text a girl asking if she has raisins, and when she says no ask if she has a date? It's not autistic if it works amiright? She already knows me for shitty jokes.
>>16985235
honestly?
post a pic of yourself. thats the only way we will ever know if you can pull it off.
>>16985243
I'm a 6-7 on soc, and I'm fairly certain she already likes me. I wouldn't do it otherwise.
I say do it, I'd just laugh and certainly agree to go out with someone who sent me that message. My kinda sense of humor. It has a pretty good chance of working unless the girl is a bitch
long story short.
Im 20, and still a virgin, and the way things are going ill probably be virgin for at least a while more.
So am I too old for being a virgin or is 20 a fine age? :/ it concerns me already
Maybe it will make you feel better to know that I'm worse than you : a virgin at 28. Last time I touched a girl was more than ten years ago.
Or maybe it proves that it might indeed be too late and everyone who like me was a virgin at 20 will be one forever.
>>16984805
The median age for losing virginity is 17.5. That means that for every boy or girl who loses it at 14 there's one who doesn't make it until 20. Or 2 kids losing it at 16 equals one at 20.
The point is that 20 is not especially far from the average.
No, being a 20 y.o. virgin isn't that much of a big deal, well, at least where I live. But once you cross 24/25, then you can consider yourself a failure.
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Girls, we (men) are just penises, why do you cry for penises? Doesn't this seem silly?
guys, how do i approach a shy guy
>>16984704
I don't get it. Just approach him. Do you think he will run away? You girls have it easy.
>Tfw in ten year relationship from 18-28.
>Tfw he cheats on me with some 18 y.o. bimbo.
>Tfw feel dead inside and like I can never trust men again.
>Tfw even if I date again some guy will leave me for someone ten years younger.
>>16982586
For every woman that has been cheated on there is a guy that has been cheated on. You either find the strength to move on or let it destroy you. The choice is yours. As long as you are alive you can find a way to make things better.
>10 years.
That was your problem.
If you want to be with a guy for longer than 5 years you make him sign legal paper work otherwise he is still fair game.
You've even had two leap years where you could have ask him.
>>16982586
Well yeah. You have to upgrade your woman model every ten years.
If I'm 25 and have never had interest from women, either at school of university, then how can I possibly ever have an "authentic" relationship if any female attraction towards me will solely be based on how much money I have? I'll never have experienced an authentic relationship ever.
I'm no longer a student but seeing them these days makes me feel bad.
>inb4 Y not X?
I'm not fat and I lift weights and I've had part time jobs before etc.
>>16981551
Post your picture
>>16981551
No, it's far simpler.
We're alike in many ways, you and I. Age, habits, fears.
But I suspect we share another characteristic.
My brain is broken; women routinely express interest in me and I ignore it every time, only to realise after going away and giving it some introspection.
Women have actually said hi to me in the street before and I've totally ignored it. They must be talking to someone else or on the phone, I'll think. Saying hi back would be foolish.
You've...
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You're only 25. You shouldn't be so quick to dismiss your own attractiveness. I know it's an annoying cliche, but you just haven't met the right person yet. I'm sure you can work on meeting more women, so don't give up yet.
What do you guys make of this?
You're talking to an idiot, leave them alone.
I really want her back in my life, but I don't know what to make of this. She messaged me this about a month after our break up
So this question is mainly for girls around 18-23 years old, what type of features do you want in a boyfriend? I'm not asking for your dream guy but like if you were to want a relationship with a guy what would you generally want?
Asking a question to the 0.001%
>>16984824
They don't know. Just be somewhat socially valuable and maintain good hygeine. Be working toward your future but have some creativity.
In other words be a functional human.
hey i like guys that don't take themselves too serious and can make jokes about themselves.. nothing turns me off more that ppl who can only make jokes about others, he shouldn't act like he's superior or smarter, he should be loving and affectionate. I want to feel loved that's the most important. Shouldn't be cold towards me since i like to show how much i care about my bf and always tell him what i like about him
Why do you cheat on someone? Asking to you cheater
>>16984663
I only fuck hookers, so it isn't cheating, is it?
>>16984701
It is if you are in relationship with a person who doesnt know about it
Because he's in the navy, while I'm here alone, and 6 months is too long for me without some kind of intimate human contact.
is it ever acceptable to go after a single mother of 2 kids?
>pretend i'm low 30s and have a good income
>pretend i'm more alpha than both dead beat dads.
>pretend i like the girl as more than a fucktoy
>>16984587
How old is she and how old are the kids?
>>16984590
she's 22, the kids are 3 and 1. Different fathers.
>>16984587
Raising others' kids also is a cuck thing to do.
My gf won't have sex with me if I object to the pill.
She refuses to accept only a condom for protection. She says she doesn't trust it and wants to use her own protection instead because it's better.
What do?
>object to the pill
Why is it any of your business if she's taking the pill?
Break up because your ideals are different.
She's being the more responsible one, preferring a method with lower failure rates.
Pay for her implant. Best fucking thing ever.
If I'm going to be an adult in matter of a few months and I want to have sex with a girl who's 12 how should I go about doing it?
Get her drunk.
>>16984306
take her on a picnic :)
Just approach her parents and explain to them what you want to do
/adv/ help
I'm fuckin' stumped mang.
Does anyone with a gf actually have any meaningful conversations with their girl?
I am fucking bored of mine so much, I literally just feel frustrated and angry when she tries to talk to me, nothing is ever fun, it always comes off as if she's pretending to care about the topic just to please me or try get attention out of me, but it never feels genuine.
When I talk to my friends it could be about the dumbest shit but it's still hilarious or stupidly serious.
My girl recently tried talking...
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I've never had a girl that could talk particularly intelligently about most subjects, and it's the #1 complaint I hear from my friends about their women.
Granted, some of these girls are pretty smart, its just their scope of knowledge is very, very, very narrow. Try talking to her about something she's passionate about and ask her questions about it. She's trying to talk to you about UFC shit because she likes you and wants to try and relate and talk about stuff you like.
Flip it around, try talking about stuff she likes.
This is by no means...
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well, recently broke up, may get back together, but still counts?
to answer your question, yes. i even have meaningful conversations with girls that im just casually seeing. I wont engage with people who can't. They don't stimulate me, and not worth my time when there are 7billion other people on this planet.
stop going for the girl that you find cute, date because you find her cute, and tolerate all that "flirty shit" just because she gets your dick hard.
girl i was together with was able to talk with me about a wide variety of things....
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>>16984145
This.
I'm a girl who feels about guys the way OP feels about his girl. Turns out most people don't spend 4+ hours a day researching everything under the sun or coming up with ethically consistent worldviews. So I date the ones who can keep up.
>Girlfriend posted a picture of her sucking on a lollipop on Tumblr captioned "This could be you" like 2 years ago before we got together.
It still bothers me very to this very day, not much the fact that she's posted it on the internet. It's more like actual disappointment that she's done such a thing. It's slutty and I hate shit like that.
Wat do, should I adress this or just let it go like a man?
Just let it go.
>>16983924
>should I adress this or just let it go like a man?
You just acknowledged that letting it go was the manly thing to do, so why are you asking?
>>16983924
it's an inanimate object op.
it's all good.
For some reason Mexican girls fucking love me. I've had a Mexican girl try to fuck me randomly just meeting me, all the girls I talk to online that like me are Latina, and the only girls to really compliment me or stare are Mexican.
I live in a white as fuck small farm town. How can I meet Latinas? Help
>>16983674
move to southern california?
>>16983674
Move anywhere there aren't Tractor Supply Co stores.
>>16983674
Go to a major city